relationships

United States
January 29, 2009 10:32pm CST
my ex boyfriend went to jail and is now sending me letters wanting to get me back. i am very happy with the boyfriend i have now. he treats me excellent and i seriously have never been happier. the only thing is that my ex and were engaged and i got into some trouble with him and he still has me wrapped around his little finger. i want to be able to give my whole heart to my boyfriend now so that i am able to start a family and actually be able to live a happy life. what do i do? how do i get someone who i lived with,spent a few years of my life with, and gave up my family for out of my life forever? is it possible to still be friends with him or should i break all ties? what are your relationship experiences? good or bad?
2 responses
markbrauer16
@markbrauer16 (265)
• United States
30 Jan 09
I think you should say... forget about that other guy cause you got 1 hell of a good guy as your man.... I dont think it would be possible to find a better man
lynnemg
@lynnemg (4529)
• United States
30 Jan 09
You and your ex broke up for a reason. You need to remember that reason. Right now, he is in jail and I am sure he is very lonely. Chances are, he doesn't have many people from the outside of the bars talking to him right now, and he also has a lot of time to think. I really think that he KNOWS he has you wrapped, and he is playing on that. If I were you, I would cut off ties with im before you chance losing your current guy. If you are really happy with your current guy, you will focus on the realtionship that you are in now rather than the one you were in before.