How much freedom you give to your lover?

China
January 30, 2009 1:06am CST
One of my girl friends called me this noon and told me an incident happened between he and her fiance just before the call.Her fiance asked her to spend some time with his sister in the park, while he would go to Kara OK with his friends for a little while.However, this arrangement annoyed my friend, she went home with his company.Meanwhile her fiance also became upset about this.Well, perhaps girls are usually narrow_minded, they wanna be with their lovers all the time. As far as Im concerned, I would let him go to enjoy some time with his friends but a little while as he promised.I think all of us ,no matter men or women, need some free time on his/her own.What you think?How much freedom you give to your lover? Thanks for sharing! Good day!
3 responses
makeupbycher
@makeupbycher (165)
• Philippines
30 Jan 09
i agree that men (or women) need to have their friends and other social activities outside the relationship. it helps for their own personal growth. it is not healthy to be with your partner 24hours a day. how can you do the stuff you need to do? talk with friends, maintain relationships with family and friends? too much of everything is bad. it should be in moderation. ample time for friends, for yourself and for your partner. cheers!
Ravenladyj
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
30 Jan 09
I'm actually probably one of the few women who DOESN'T want to be with her men all the time..In fact it drives me crazy...I NEED my space and alone time..so if my men want/wanted to go do their thing thats fine by me....
spalladino
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
30 Jan 09
I agree with you. Just because you're a couple does not mean that you're attached at the hip and have to spend all of your free time together. My husband has as much freedom as he wants and so do I. We do things together but there are times when we want some space and, in all honesty, I can't stand a couple of his friends so I would rather not be there when he's hanging out with them.