what age should a person get married? have a family?

@yina24 (358)
Philippines
January 30, 2009 4:46am CST
I got married at the age of 19.. since both of my parents disagree getting an early marriage, my partner to be and I decided to have a baby that time.. and that's what happened.. is there any preferences that a person should have to get married? ^^
2 responses
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
30 Jan 09
I think whatever age the couple or person in question feels is right PROVIDED they are responsible enough to do it..Beingn married doesnt really come with too much additional responsiblity but becoming a parent most certainly does...
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@yina24 (358)
• Philippines
30 Jan 09
I agree with that... luckily, eventhough i got married in an early stage, i have a responsible husband that makes our lives stable enough to live in.. living in this word CURIOSITY brings most of the teenagers into a life a getting pregnant too early but cannot stand being a parent,,.,
@yina24 (358)
• Philippines
30 Jan 09
yeah~~ some teenagers under CURIOSITY are getting pregnant but can't withstand of being a parent..
• United States
31 Jan 09
I think getting married at an early age is a big mistake. 90% of the time things dont work out due to the lack of skills, maturity, responsibility. The fact that you havent explored life or what it has to offer definately puts a damper on things. Young adults should be pursuing education, careers, dating, traveling. So to gain knowledge and wisdom to pass on to thier children when they decide to have them. Babies are a big responsibility and expense and if you dont have the experience or finances they could suffer the consequences also. I too married and had children young. It made it really hard. We ended up splitting up and I was left to rear the children and struggle. I love my children dearly, but wish that I had waited so that I could have given them a better life.
@yina24 (358)
• Philippines
31 Jan 09
that's a sad story and thanks for sharing mldicola620.. we cannot stay from the past and it's good that you have your children with you.. i know it's hard to be a single parent.. but i know you can make it.. past is past and moving on is the greatest thing that you did.. for your children.. keep it up.. we're here if you need anything.. if i can help you, why not?.. :)