Equal partnership

hi bama .. i do not believe in equal partnership .. as i believe "male" ego carries most weight ... But not necessarily some lucky woman get the best man .. btw, in my relationship, i am creating a "smart" partnership by pretending to be dumb and stupid but making the necessary moves on the "checker board" i learned this slowly, painfully for a ,ong time .. now i am intelligent .. my only worries is, my husband may never trust me if he found out ..but i have to risk it to ensure, i do not loose out in the partnership especially when money is concerned, as his family will do anything to suck the last drop of his blood and hw willingly give in without considering me cheers