do you have a voice and are you beening heard?
By annjilena
@annjilena (5618)
United States
January 30, 2009 11:58am CST
i know you have something to say is your voice beening heard to be a good listener you first have to have something to say.if two people are talking at the say time someone is not listening.to be a good teacher you have to be a good listener.let your voice be heard talk about whatever you like to talk about.scream if you like it,s ok it your chance to be heard let your voice shine.so mylotter whats been bothering you lately express yourself let us hear your voice on mylot.
1 response
@edgyk8inmomma (2157)
• United States
30 Jan 09
It's nice of you to put up a discussion just to let others speak their minds.
I have to say, that listening is not always easy. It helps if you try to put yourself in the other person's position. I hate it when I go to someone with an issue, and al the time I'm talking I can tell they are just thinking of the nextt hing they want to say. If anyone has a problem with communication, take this advice. Shut up and listen! Don't just hear the words coming out of the other person's mouth. Actually listen to them, think about the person's feelings, experiences, and the situation.
Did you know that the average person can speak at about 200 words per minute, but can listen to well over 600 words per minute? The person listening should use that extra ability to think and apply what is being said, they should also be reading body language and looking for other non-verbal signals being sent by the speaker.
Just my two cents :)
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
30 Jan 09
that right we have to listen to each other just saying something to hurt that person feeling is not good enough we all have feeling here and all we want is to be respected and to be heard.we have a voice just like they have a voice let listen to each other so we all can benifit from whats beening discussed. thank you for sharing
