Did you just stay calm when makes a call on the phone?
By maxilimian
@maxilimian (3099)
Indonesia
January 30, 2009 9:03pm CST
I have noticed that many people can't stay calm when they are in online when makes a call
is that some kind of habit that people do unconscious things when calling? i see their hand can't just stay calm, they always move like grabbing something or playing phone cables or holding what they can reach near them when call, or maybe sometimes they can't stand calm but they always move to left or right
Or maybe you are one of them?Why people do that?did you noticed it? hehe 
is that some kind of habit that people do unconscious things when calling? i see their hand can't just stay calm, they always move like grabbing something or playing phone cables or holding what they can reach near them when call, or maybe sometimes they can't stand calm but they always move to left or right
Or maybe you are one of them?Why people do that?did you noticed it? hehe 
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3 responses
@sacmom (14192)
• United States
6 Feb 09
I usually do, though at the same time it depends on whom I am calling.
For example when I call my mom I'm usually pretty calm. But when it comes to my sister, it's a different story. We've never really been close and we became even more distant after she and our mom had a falling out many years ago. My sister wants nothing to do with our mom's side of the family, including me. I don't have a problem with my sister snubbing me, I've dealt with it basically all my life. But I do feel bad for our mom. I've recently looked up my sister online and found some phone numbers she apparently has had. But when I started to dial the numbers I noticed my heart started to pound hard. And when the phone started ringing, the pounding got worse. When the other end finally picked up it was a recorded message saying that the phone number was no longer in service. My heart slowed down and I breathed a sigh of relief. As much as I want to help my mom reconcile with my sister, it's too much for my heart to take. Much more than I ever expected.
Too bad I can't just email her. It would make it so much easier.
@maxilimian (3099)
• Indonesia
6 Feb 09
Sad to hear
... i hopes your mom will be fine one day, and you don't have to be worried anymore, and hopes your sister realized one day that she still the parts of the family who love her too, hopes everything will be better ...
GBU ..
... i hopes your mom will be fine one day, and you don't have to be worried anymore, and hopes your sister realized one day that she still the parts of the family who love her too, hopes everything will be better ...
GBU .. @salonga (27775)
• Philippines
3 Feb 09
Those are mannerisms found in many people. I also noticed that. But I tried observing myself, but seems like I don't have such mannerisms or maybe somebody else should observe me to find what my mannerism are when online.
@maxilimian (3099)
• Indonesia
3 Feb 09
Hehehe maybe somebody should
usually people don't realize that they are doing such things when online 
usually people don't realize that they are doing such things when online 
@Opal26 (17679)
• United States
31 Jan 09
Hey max! Nope! I can stay still when I'm on the phone! I can
just sit where I am and not move around or play with anything!
I can't stand when people have to move around or play with
something just because they are on the phone! I don't
understand it! I am perfectly content to pay attention to
the person that I am talking to!
@maxilimian (3099)
• Indonesia
31 Jan 09
Hehe, nice to see you are not doing such things
yep it really happens, i sometimes see people can't stay still, well people who talking to us can't see directly, so we do not know, what their opposite talk are doing
i'm just wondering why they do that 
yep it really happens, i sometimes see people can't stay still, well people who talking to us can't see directly, so we do not know, what their opposite talk are doing
i'm just wondering why they do that 




