demirited on my rankings, i was so sad about it, have you experienced that?

@mobhomeir (7558)
Philippines
January 31, 2009 1:02am CST
What happiness I felt when I was merited on my rankings was also what I felt when I was demerit a few days ago. I've been warned of this before but I guess it could not be avoided. You have to defend what you have thought right in your discussions and topics posted with the expense on your positive rankings here. NO regrets! I understand you can't please all of your co-members here. How about you guys, did you also experienced this?
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@blink182m (182)
• Philippines
3 Feb 09
I guess we all experience this, but for me its only o.k(no problem to me) because for me ranking is just the icing on the cake. I don't wish to have a high ranking as long as I can share my views and opinions in this site. Im really greatful to this site to the person/staff who created this site I salute you for a job well done. Keep this up..
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
4 Feb 09
Yes. I will change from now my attitude towards that ranking. I don't care about my ranking...thanks bro..
• Philippines
1 Feb 09
so sad. i have not experienced that. i hope i will not experience that too. well, we can't please everybody. but you have to please yourself.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
1 Feb 09
yes..that's also what I wished but it can't be avoided because if you are sincere in your discussions you must defend it not your rankings. If you're after of only your rankings you could easily twist your stand about what you've discussed..thanks
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• India
31 Jan 09
Well my ranking went up from 5 to 6 and suddenly it went back to 5 and that is where it stays, this is quite unfortunate, because in a discussion you cannot accept whatever the other person writes, and in a free discussion like mylot, there will be arguments and counter arguments, but unfortunately there are some trolls, who have a habit of giving negative marks as well as unnecessarily reporting to the mylot authorities. well you cannot help it, there will be nice people as well as mischief mongers in any forums.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
1 Feb 09
Yeah. You're right. From now on I don't mind about rankings. It doesn't make any difference. What's the important would be how you defend your stand and discussions you posted..thanks pal
@djoyce71 (2511)
• Philippines
31 Jan 09
I have been through it also before. I reached my blue star early and it never went back to other colors. Only the ratings changed. The highest rating that I got was 98/100, and it went down then up and down again many times, but for months now it's on 96/100 steady. Friends here advised not to worry about the ratings and reputations, just continue on posting. You are right, we cannot please everybody.
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@fwidman (11514)
• United States
31 Jan 09
My rankings go up and down, as do most member's rankings on here. There's really nothing you can do about it, it is up to other people to rate you either plus or minus.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
31 Jan 09
Yes. I just knew that. We'll that what it is. We can't please all people here..thanks