My daughter has gone

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Hi, Thanks so much to all your responses to help im loosing my daughter. After spending a week at her boyfriends she came home and told me she was only joking about moving away. i can tell you, i was so happy to hear this. After being away from him for not even a day she came to me crying her eyes out, telling me she was misssing him so much and wanted to be with him. She told me she didn't want to hurt me though. So, my lotters this is how i handled it. I balded my eyes out too. I told her she had to do want was right for her. I told her i would always love her and would miss her sooo much if she left, but i wouldn't stop her from going if this was what she really wanted. It was soooooo hard because she decided she wanted to be with her boyfriend. He came and picked her up that same day. Saying goodbye was difficult. I asked him to promise me to bring her back to see me often. He promised he would. Do you think that i handled the situation ok? I put my feelings a side and let her make her own choice. She has been gone for two days now and i really miss her. i want her to be happy, she has been through a lot in her short life. I am going to go see her sometime soon. I need to see where she is and how she is living. I need to see this, to put my mind at rest a bit. Would you have done this differently? I am scared i won't see her again. I have to make sure this doesn't happen i know, but it's hard when she is 3 and half hours away. We only have one car and my partner works 5 and half days a week. How do i make this work? I couldn't stand not to see her at all. Do you have any helpful coments for me?