net love...a waste?

February 1, 2009 12:56pm CST
Hi how many of you have fallen in love on the net and it has actually materialised into something real & true?Do u think it really works or just faids away in time, your experiences will be appreciated.thanks
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6 responses
@figjam00 (1450)
• India
5 Feb 09
to be honest I think love on internet might seem a impossible thing for the people who have never fallen in love on internet. From personal perspective I think I won't fall in love on internet unless I meet that person physically. But as I said it depends person to person.
@ronnyb (6117)
• Jamaica
5 Feb 09
Wow the truth be told I don’t think the net is bad or good ,I think it is a medium and should be supplemented with other dating activities in which you really get to know the person. The net represents a medium for many persons to meet people who they might not have met in normal circumstances .However many persons lie on the net and consequently follow up and face to face interaction is required over a period of time to truly find out about the person My experience on the net have been mixed .I met my first girlfriend on the net and it was good for a time but may be I rushed in too fast and consequently it ended badly. I am once again trying the net again but this time I hope to take it a little slower. I do believe there are many success stories but it takes hard work as you would if you met someone through "normal "circumstances. You could have also met someone through normal channels and it would have similarly crashed if you didn’t follow due process. So it is not necessarily where but how you conduct your dating .That is not to say you could go to strip clubs and expect to necessarily meet good girls and then there is the exception once again. Put in the work and see how it goes
@underdogtoo (9591)
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
I don't think it is a waste at all but it could be a big mistake for some people. I have seen disasters happen. Cheers!!
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
hi. yes it happened to me. and we're still friends. we're no lovers. but i love him more than that.. im still loving him, but though we're not lovers im still thankful for him cause he treats me as a bestfriend and never forgets me.
@thezone (9451)
• Ireland
2 Feb 09
I have chatted with many people online but the last thing I could think of is fall in love with someone online, it just seems so detached and plus you never really know who you are chatting to. I know some great relationships have been made online. Maybe its just me then that has never found that special someone in cyberspace.
@bombshell (11265)
• Germany
1 Feb 09
i met my hubby in real life. but some had great marriage by knowing each other online so i gues it depends the luck.