would you steal someone who's already taken?

Philippines
February 2, 2009 12:01am CST
This is devious huh? my bestfriend iggy likes this girl who has a boyfriend he said she's still not married sometimes i think i should go get the girl? same goes with me i wanna get my man back but i think its awful its bad and vicious, someone once told me is that person married? i said nope well thats just a girlfriend get him back!! do you think its right?
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9 responses
@regal_aeros (2605)
• Singapore
2 Feb 09
well.. perhaps i haven't met someone who i really love yet. So i won't. I'd wish them all the best. And show the guy that i can live off better without him. And somehow (i'm human too), show him that he is missing out not being with me. In that way, i'm not stealing him. Not directly that is.
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• Philippines
2 Feb 09
thanks for your advice pls answer also on my other discussions
@glords (2614)
• United States
2 Feb 09
I don't think you can steal a person... I NEVER agree with cheating... If you have to entice him/her back to you by making them cheat on their significant other, that IS WRONG. To confront someone, tell them how you feel, and let them make a decisions, well that's completely justifiable. If you have to flirt with them a little before you throw your cards on the table, well everything is fair in LOVE and WAR.... save cheating.
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• Philippines
2 Feb 09
nice response actually thats what i did i told him i am a bit affected i just wanna know if its worth it to have him back
@rsa101 (37952)
• Philippines
3 Feb 09
Well sometimes it really is a challenge to steal something that does not belong to you. So I guess that is why many tend to do it for the challenge of it. But for me I guess if its already taken then its taken unless thew person voluntarily comes tyo you then you don't steal it because it came back to you. So if I were you just wait for him to get back to you. If that did not come then it's really not for you or not meant to be at all.
• Philippines
3 Feb 09
Thanks for the response
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
Why should you have to steal her away, that you know that the person is taken, and happily involve or married. When you love someone you want that person to be happy, and not to complicate things for her. Just leave her in peace. Anyway there will come a time for your friend to find the right person for him, or it might be you hahaha! Good night! You take care friend!
• Philippines
3 Feb 09
Thanks for the response
@apples99 (6556)
• United States
3 Feb 09
No I would not steal someone who is already taken because I wouldnt want to do anything to anyone that I wouldnt want done to me, and I just wouldnt want to hurt anyone its just not me, and its not the right thing to do, but I guess everyone has different views when it comes to that sort of thing, but I just couldn't do that.
• Philippines
3 Feb 09
thanks for the response
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
i wouldnt dare steal someone who's taken.. but if they claim that der not and i dint know.. i would gladly take them.. hehehe but freal.. i cant imagine myself stealing somebodys boyfriend.. married or not.. i cant.. coz i dont want that to happen to me.. and that could make someone cry.. which is not good..
• Philippines
3 Feb 09
Thanks for the response
• India
2 Feb 09
Hi Well i would never cheat on someone and steal someone. this brings so much of guilty feeling and i personally believe in, "what goes aroung comes back around" and it happend to me many time, so i would never hurt someone because then i can expect the same can happen to me too. All i can do is to be happy and let other be happy, stealing someone is such a wired thought God Bless!!
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
Thanks for the advice
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
i would not call it stealing, i would just make her realize that i am a much better person than her current boyfriend and make it enough that she will leave him for me hehehehe but it has never happened and i will never do that because there are other girls out there who are not attached, unless that girl who is attached is really the one for me, but there is never really a way of knowing that
• Philippines
3 Feb 09
thanks for the response
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
I believe in karma so I won't do this. Do not do unto others what you don't want others do unto you. Also, there are a lot of people in this world. Why would I keep on pushing myself to a person who's already taken, when I can find another person who's unattached and deserves my love.
• Philippines
3 Feb 09
thanks for the comment