She get upset...maybe?

@jstmarfz (1498)
United States
February 3, 2009 12:52am CST
A friend of mine asked me to help her to sell her new business. Its swarovski crystal bracelets, necklaces and rings. When I saw the sample pictures of her items, I was surprise with the price. The necklace cost $70-$80 and the ring is $20. I really don't have any idea if its expensive or not. But when I told her that I think its too much because I have seen how simple it was made. And suddenly she get upset. Which I find it really funny and then she told me that she was kidding about asking me for help. She then sounded sarcastic to me. If your friend will give you their opinion, would you act the same way the way "my friend" did to me? And, how much does swarovski crystal jewelry cost? Thank you!
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@StarBright (2798)
• United States
3 Feb 09
Jewelry - Ring with diamonds and pink gemstone - Jewelry - Ring with diamonds and pink gemstone
You obviously hurt your friend's feelings. You had no right to say anything about her pricing. That was her business. However, maybe if you had been a little more tactful in expressing your opinion on her merchandise, she would have taken it more kindly. As a store owner, I know that pricing does not always seem fair to the consumer. Unless you know what it cost to purchase the merchandise along with the overhead that goes along with it, you cannot know what a fair price is. Jewelry is an item that is difficult to appraise - real or costume. A cheap $5.00 pair of earrings can look like a $100. pair. One of my customers works in a pawn shop. She told me that when people bring jewelry into her pawn shop, they are shocked because they may pay $20,000 for a diamond necklace; but when they come to sell it they may only get $2,ooo. The worth is determined by the quality and size of the diamond and the weight and going price of the metal. It won't matter if you buy it at Tiffany's or Zale's. They don't care if it is Cartier or Nobody. Would I act the same way your friend did? Probably so. I would not lose friendship with you, but I would not want you in my business with so little knowledge and so many opinions. I think I am a lot older than you and your friend, so I have learned a lot and I don't think I would respond with sarcasm now, only with love. May I suggest if you really value your friendship, maybe you can think of soem marketing ideas for your friend, present them to her, and that will still help her. These are tough economic times. Everyone can use a little help.^_^
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@jstmarfz (1498)
• United States
4 Feb 09
Hello! thank you for your reply. I got your point with your comment though the thing was, I explained to my friend that she needs to lower her price like what you have said economy is tough at this time. Before I told her that, I checked in the internet for the prices of the swarovski crystal sell by known company. To think, if she wants to sell more of her items, she have to make the price lower than what other have because that really attract people. People doesn't just buy, they also consider the price in a practical way. I told her that in a nice way but she responded opposite. I have consider her side as an enterpreneur, but, I am also looking at the consumer side. To make things fair. Well, it was just an opinion for me though, if she took that as a negative one I guess that would be it.
• United States
4 Feb 09
Sounds like you did offer her good advice. Sometimes the truth hurts. All you can do is be there for her. Maybe she's just not ready for those hard lessons in merchandising. And then again, maybe she will get lucky and her merchandise will catch on and take off with the right marketing. Who would have thought the pet rock would sell. Or Starbucks coffee for $5.oo a cup? Every brand started out as a Nobody at one time. Encourage her. But if the sales don't happen fast enough, maybe she will see it your way and have a Valentine's day special or something. LOL.
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@sid556 (30960)
• United States
23 May 09
I'm not sure how much the jewlery actually costs. I have a friend that makes beaded jewlery and she charges far less for them.
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@modstar (9605)
• Philippines
24 Apr 09
I really don't know how close you and your friend are so i really can't tell if the way you said it was enough to make her upset. Sometimes we have to be careful with the words we use just to prevent tension. I think it borders between being being objective and insulting. You could have said something like "don't you think it's quite expensive?" then she would explain the reasons why or she'll ask you why then that's the time you can say "i think it's too simple". Obviously, she has lost her hopes of you helping her our so she came up with that weird "joke" lol! i may not act the same way but in my mind, i guess i would have to think it through.
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@khyliebb (11)
• Philippines
3 Feb 09
I don't really know how much swarovski crystal jewelry costs but the real issue in your case is how your friend took your opinion. If I were your friend, I probably would feel the same way too considering the hard work she put into making those stuff. But then again, she was wrong in how she reacted to it by being sarcastic. She should have taken it as constructive criticism and thanked you for giving it instead of being so defensive.