What type of person are your friends

I have a lot of aquaintances and a handful of Friends. The common denominator is respect. In some cases we lead different lives and do different things hobby and job wise but we both respect the other. In some case we are complete opposites, I am a very positive, optimistic type and a couple of my friends are pessimistic and always see the grim side with no future in certain situations. That is probably why we are friends. We balance each other out and both respect, though not always agreeing with, the others point of view.

There are similarities among the people we call "our friends." Neighbors. Classmates. People we see at our place of worship. Coffee shops. Recreational areas. Where ever the place is, we find a common ground with these people. Eventually, become acquainted. Depending on the kind of response we get from each other. Like or dislike. They become either our friends or stay as acquaintances. Sometimes, when you least expect, a friend finds you. I like that situation even more. As if making bonds with people who you instantly know. (Like myLot). Like a lock and key, we connect, if we fit. it's a friendship for keeps. Even if we are a bit different, it's ok. Different is good. There are a lot of things to talk about. A lot of things to explore. Making friends is like asking these questions. You will get an idea of how the other person thinks. Ask random questions and give situations. Listening, giving opinions, arguing with each other, are good forms of communication and makes a dull day more exciting. Respect is one of the chains that will link this new found friendship. I would add Trust, patience, tolerance, and a promise not to change you. LOL "Strangers are just friends waiting to happen. To be a good man, one must have faithful friends or outright enemies." - Napolen

I think that all of my good friends have one thing in common - they have good and honest hearts. I cannot say that I otherwise notice specific traits, but yes a mutual respect of the differences between each of us is something that my close friends must have and a certain level of maturity. Having said that, having a similar sense of humour helps too

I am cool and calm person. but i like someone who are extrovert. But i dont like hyper active persons. all my friends are very active and they makes me active. I cannot feel comfort with rude persons. I hate rude fellows.