Are you eager to return kindness given to you?

When people offer help to me i do return it if they are in immediate need or when ever they want it. In my case kindness usually comes in the form of money and i try my level best to give it back as soon as i can since i don`t like to be indebted and keep someones hardearned money for long. that way i am relieved of the tension of being in debt which could causs mental stress.

Oh yes! I am very proud anyway and if you can wrestle me to accept a kindness given..you better believe I will be trying to return it relentlessly. I am not used to kindnesses and so I don't really know how to accept them. If I get one..I want to repay it.

yes,,, doesnt mean i will do the same thing, instead ,instead i will show some generosity in some ways. like giving what i have that they dont have, offer something to do that i think they need my help. its like that..

I do repay kindness with kindness. When I feel that someone has wronged me then I try to let the wrong end there and not continue it any further. It's often easier said than done but that's what I try to do. There are times when I've been reactionary and repaid like with like but I think as a human we are all likely to be that way sometimes. As to kindness being repaid, the belief is that one should not accept a kindness he cannot either repay or pay forward. And one should never offer one and refuse repayment. It is a bad position to put someone in to offer a kindness the person could never ever repay. It unbalances the obligations, and leaves him in debt. I don't expect everyone to see things as I do, but the question speaks so closely to my beliefs, that I thought I would offer my perspective on it. Further, my reasoning for being kind to others has nothing to do with their kindness to me. I am more likely to be nice to everyone I meet. If someone is mean to me, I am more likely to end the discussion and walk away ,not 'repay them with evil'.