Having multiples
By bamakelly
@bamakelly (5191)
United States
February 4, 2009 5:43am CST
When you see those families that raise multiple sets of twins do you admire them and feel that they are brave people to take on the job that they are. Or do you think that they must have taken infertility treatments and you don't think that it is fair to the children that they have to share in all of the attention?
3 responses
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
4 Feb 09
I think you have to be in the situation of couples who had to take fertility pills just to get pregnant, when I woman is able to bear children she doesn't know the desperation of a woman that just wants to have a child like every other woman.
And no I do not judge those women, I could bare children, I had no right to judge someone's pain and despair.
@syankee525 (6249)
• United States
4 Feb 09
all i can say better them then me, i have twins and it was hard enough
@wonttakelong (3555)
• United States
4 Feb 09
I have to say that the fertility treatment assumption is one of my biggest pet peeves
I have twins and NO I did NOT use any type of treatment
They were conceived the old fashioned way
I have been asked that fertility treatment question MANY times and its very offensive
I realise that some women have a hard time conceiving and need some help but seriously...
we dont ALL have to do that!!
My twins get equal ammounts of attention
th most unfair treatment they get is when I tell them that yes they HAVE to eat the peas
