DO you know the feeling of confused of whom to love?
By ghreizahnne
@ghreizahnne (244)
Philippines
February 5, 2009 9:35am CST
do you know? I am so sad today because of. I want to say I love him. and yet I can't. I don't know why.I know I love him but I am not sure of my feelings. I am so confused of whom to love. In my bestfiend or in my close frien... It's so hard... because If I let it happen to any of them.. I will just hurt myself. Maybe I will just wait and see what will happen. I'm scared to loose them..
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6 responses
@ahgong (10064)
• Singapore
12 Feb 09
I am confused. You are in love with two people?
One of them is a close friend. And the other is a best friend?
It is obvious that you are not ready to enter into any relationship yet.
You are not even sure who is the person you want to spend more of your time with.
So, sit and wait it out. Profess your love only when you are clear on who you want to spend your time with.
Cos it is not fair to the other person if you profess your love to the both of them.
Wishing you luck on clearing your thoughts with regards to this.
@spoiled311 (5500)
• Philippines
5 Feb 09
hi there ghreizahnne !
well, yeah, i had that same feeling too, about 10 years ago, when i had a boyfriend from far away and then i fell in love with someone that i was always with. anyway, to make the long story short, i broke up with the other guy, which is much easier because he was away, and in a short time, i was with the new guy.
and this new guy is now my husband of almost 2 years and i am very happy with him. i have no regrets that i left the other one for my husband. so i am not very sure about your situation. i just think that it is best to pursue whom we love.
take care and God bless you!
happy mylotting! :D
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
5 Feb 09
Hello ghreizahnne! I am really confused about you too. Among those two friends of yours, whom do you really love? I know you know already whom to choose but you just don't want one will get hurt.
@prasanna1990 (816)
• India
5 Feb 09
just be open and feel free not come across this sort of situation so no comment on it happy mylotting
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@gunagohan (3414)
• India
5 Feb 09
i do have the same feeling.......whether to propose to my friend or to keep quiet....if __accepts my proposal i will be happy.....if i was said no, then i will be sad...then on the other hand, i will lose my friendship...so i want to have friendship forever...so i decided to keep silent.....
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@siomaiii (238)
• Philippines
5 Feb 09
If you are not sure about your feelings then don't commit yet. It will only worsen the situation. Evaluate your feelings carefully. Who do you really love? Who really makes you happy? Who is worthy of your love? Who among the two shares with you the same values, principles and goals in life with? To whom you are really comfortable with? To whom you can be yourself? Take your time to decide, there is no need to rush things.
