Love on the Net

Philippines
February 6, 2009 7:08am CST
I known him for quite sometime on the net and we're constantly chatting like we do it everyday. We promised not to fall and we will be just the best of friends- no strings attached. We live in different world. He's from the north side of the globe and I am from the south. But as time moves on, things change unnotice. We started exchanging "I miss you's" and "I love you's". He starting to dream of me as his wife and so I am to him as my husband. We both know we crossed the line, but feelings just too strong that we just let it in and now we can't go back. Is it alright to pursue such relationship when you know you can't be together, ever?
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6 responses
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
6 Feb 09
Hello restless? Why you said that it's impossible for the both of you to be together? My husband and I are thousand miles away too and that we both grow up to different world. He is from USA and I am from the Philippines. We met online too and that we have our relationship while talking everyday. Finally, he made a decision and plan a trip to come here and marry me. So if you both know each other, you love each other and you are both available, I think you should pursue your relationship.
• Philippines
6 Feb 09
thanks a lot aisa...i will keep that in mind:)
• United States
6 Feb 09
ok restless..don't be restless ok?
@guchuang (83)
• China
6 Feb 09
I think love is a wonderful thing.And it is a happiness thing that if you have a good love on line. Love is just a emotional sustenance,to make up modern society,many people emotional pale.In a sense,courtship,is it not a beautiful it? Of course,you should not only accept this kind of beauty,it is necessary to have the courage to face a day of parting!
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@phayeth (519)
• Philippines
6 Feb 09
u can be together.. if the two of u really wants to with each other..
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
6 Feb 09
Why can't you be together? Are you both (or one of you) married to someone else? You see, talking everyday, regardless the medium will sooner or later cause two people to fall for each other, I should know because I was involved with that type of friendship for 8years. It was the same with you, we promised it would only be friendship, but sooner we both dreamed of being married. Anyhow, it could have been possible if we gave ourselves a shot, but we didn't. Now, he's married with kids, and I have someone. We still talk online, but not the same as before, we closed our chapter before he got married, now it's purely friendship. But I could really say, it could have been. But I guess there are times in our life when we just can't have what we want, but it doesn't mean we would never find happiness. We could. It's all in the mind. So, if there aren't any reason why the two of you cannot be together, then go for it. But as a stern warning, online chatting can cause you to think too much. Our minds sometimes play tricks on us, a simple thing might be overly projected due to distance and online. So, I'd say meet the person first, before deciding the next step. There's only a thin line separating Love from Infatuation, and most won't know until it's too late. So, meet first. Then decide. Oh by the way, meet the person ONLY if he isn't attached or if you aren't attached yourself.
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• Philippines
18 Feb 09
well..frankly speaking,i don't just believed on this following words..like " i love you's " you know, they are just for fun..it's a funny thing having a relationship which is said to be not real..but it's a good thing if you will just put to mind that this is all imagination and won't end up into reality..you will just become sad when you realize that after all it's gonna be a dream for the two of you..
• India
6 Feb 09
ya i do chat on the net with lots of girl they do add me as our friend and also i hate love on net these are just infacturation and not the love happy myloting