broken hearted !!!

@bombshell (11256)
Germany
February 7, 2009 4:19pm CST
have you realize that most of the lovesong are for broken hearted or saparated? why is that? why canĀ“t they make song for a happy couple? or happy times?...any ideas about it?
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9 responses
@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
10 Feb 09
HI again, it's always like that coz it's what catches the "kiliti" of people. It makes us say "awwww...that's so sad...." complete with a sad pouty look. Like this I call them bittersweet songs. It's human nature. We yearn for what isn't ours. So it is reflected in our music. Hope that helped. LOL
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
12 Feb 09
i will tickle your "kiliti" hahaha well you are right kababayan.how is the weather in Bohol?you dont mind to send me some ube ice cream?hmmmm YUMMY!
@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
13 Feb 09
Ok, no prob . One ube ice cream coming up. In return be sure to also send me some Haagen Dazs if you have that in Germany.*wink wink*
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
8 Feb 09
yes most of them are sad. but then they do have some out there that are good ones Have you hear this one? If I had to do it all over again I would do it with you . Love thewords to this song
@Lakota12 (42600)
• United States
8 Feb 09
yup that are some of the words in the song!
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
8 Feb 09
no did not heared but i remember some song and i like this line "everything i do, it do it for you"
@carinio98 (2929)
• Philippines
8 Feb 09
puna ko rin. i think most of the singer or song writer who wrote that kind of songs are broken hearted they only want to express there feeling to the song theyve made.
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
8 Feb 09
gues so
• United States
8 Feb 09
i think most people get inspiration to write music and poetry when their heart is broken and not when they are happy.. i know i write poetry and once i hooked up with my hubby i didnt have the whole drama and bad experiences dating anymore and so i just stopped writing because i had no inspiration lol
• United States
9 Feb 09
at least for me.. im not a mushy lovey dovey person so i wouldnt write about that kind of stuff but i would write about pain and heart break lol
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
8 Feb 09
i see.so if broken hearted its more inpiring to write a song or poetry?hmmm did not this.
@bhanusb (5709)
• India
8 Feb 09
True love is always painful.Lovers remain fearful to lose his/her beloved.A lover dreams,things and imagines about his/her beloved.Love songs are not for the broken hearted,these are for the dreamers.Happy couples can enjoy band show,rock music and fast beat songs.Love songs are always melodious.These songs touch our heart.
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
8 Feb 09
.agree
• India
8 Feb 09
Well if a person is successful in his love and not brokenhearted, then he wil be having lot of plans to enjoy his life, he wil spend his time with his lover or wife, go out on a tour for some romantic place, take care his profession so that there is no financial hurdles in his family life, if he has children then get busy with their work, playing with them etc..so they usually don give their time in listening to love songs, though they listen to it, when such a happy family is in front of his eves, wil he/she decide to get the happiness from the family or wil sit and listen to the happy love song so that they feel happy? Obviously they prefer to be happy spending time with their love. Because whatever happiness is been sang in the happy love song is in front of the eyes. Thats y people wont listen to happy love songs. And in love, more than people who have succeeded there are majority who are brokenheart or seperated. For such people when their love is not beside them, then only their memories are the tresure. So when those people who are brokenhearted listen to those sad songs, they go their past memories where they were with their love, enjoying their life happily. This wil make them feel that still they are with their love. In such case sad love songs wil be in demand. So usually lovesongs are broken heart songs target emotional people in their love life. So only its really hard to find happy lovesongs.
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
8 Feb 09
thanks! great point.
@littleowl (7157)
7 Feb 09
Hi bombshell, that is very observant of you...it is very true but I have no idea why they do not do happy songs, its something I have never thought about before..good discussion...littleowl
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
8 Feb 09
i am not that observant littleowl but thanks.because every time i heared the songs its all about broken hearted i mean no songs for happy couple or happy endings.so i was thought to post this since mylot helped a lot things like this
@thezone (9394)
• Ireland
7 Feb 09
Most of those songs you will find are from the artists personal experience. Everyone has had their heart broken at one time or another. They write songs like that to express how they feel, its no different to you or I talking to a friend and expressing ourselves.
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
7 Feb 09
thanks.yeah you are right its just like talking to someone.
@ds6413 (2070)
• United States
7 Feb 09
Hi, yes I have noticed most love songs are songs of being broken hearted. I have also noticed when I was in a break-up it seemd to be all I would hear every time I turned on the radio or television, someone had just suffered a broken heart
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
8 Feb 09
right......and why cant the make songs for happy endings or for happy ralationship?