...What if you saw your partner kissing someone,what will you do???

@rodeth (87)
Philippines
February 8, 2009 9:45pm CST
...You saw your partner kissing someone, then when he/she saw you looking at them he/she just push the one he/she kissed away and go after you and explained... ...It hurts you so much, but you still love him/her, would you listened to his/her explanation even when he/she have done it twice???
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@diillu (5122)
9 Feb 09
I think after seeing my partner kissing someone else then I don't think there would be any more explanation left and I don't think I will believe a single things that he would say. The only thing that I would and have to do is slap the guy right away and talk to the other girl who was being kissed inorder to know how long this has been going on and how long I was taken as a fool. And the only solution for me would be breaking up and moving up.
@maezee (39818)
• United States
9 Feb 09
Good answer! i agree!
@rodeth (87)
• Philippines
10 Feb 09
...maybe its better to slap his face,hehehe
@maezee (39818)
• United States
9 Feb 09
How could your partner "explain" something like that, though? "Oh..I tripped..and fell on her mouth"? I honestly think any kind of excuse would be simply that - an excuse. To find my "partner" (assuming I had one) doing this - it would totally betray my trust, and I would find it very hard to forgive him after that point.
@rodeth (87)
• Philippines
10 Feb 09
...yeah right, giving him the second chance is exposing myself to be hurt again, thanks for the advice
• United States
9 Feb 09
If my boyfriend was kissing another girl I would be so furious, I would listen to his explanation once I cooled down, but I would never forgive him for that, cheating is cheating, so the relationship would probably not work out. Kissing is a sacred thing between couples, and I want to share it with my boyfriend only, and I expect him to do the same. Good thing that my boyfriend is extremely faithful and good to me, I know for a fact that he would never hurt me like that. I am very lucky to have such a great guy!
@rodeth (87)
• Philippines
10 Feb 09
...yeah right, maybe he will just deceive someone like me again,hehehe but I haven't experience it...
@czafle (99)
12 Mar 09
relationship is done right on the spot baby. they wouldn't even hear a single word from me. just for them to know that i see them with my own eyes is more than enough. there must be some reason why he had to kiss someone else right? maybe he fell out of love or maybe he's just plainly playing around. but are these aren't important anymore. the act alone is more than enough to shatter whatever i have for him.
@jbrooks0127 (2326)
• United States
19 Feb 09
There is a saying that fits this very well. "Fool me once shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me." It is easy to somehow find a way to forgive the first time. Well easy it is not but at least if you love them you feel like you have to give them another chance if the circumstance is right. But when it happens again, there is no forgiveness. They have played you for a fool and for you to forgive them then will prove you are. This happened to me so I know very well what I am talking about. My first wife had multiple affairs early on in our marriage. I did not know this until many years later. I was crushed but with the help of a crises councilor I was able to get past it and we went on. Well it happened again and I divorced her. This was after 37 years of marriage. So if this happened to you and he has done it more than once you are being played for a fool and you need to walk away. No it is not easy. Perhaps the hardest thing you have ever done but you no longer can believe what he says and he will do it again.