Are you a Dreamer or

Hi Greeneyedlady, I think I have an even balance between the two really, when I was younger my one goal/dream was to live by the sea and I never gave up on that and in 2000 managed to make that move. It feels like it is where I belong, I left a lot behind and some would say I had been living in a dream world by thinking I could just up and leave and start again but I managed to. Datdreaming though, I guess at times my mind will wander but the what ifs never work and I believe if you want to make a dream come true you have to work hard to attain it. I think the only thing I would like and is not necessarily a dream as such to to have a happy relationship with a partner but I have my wonderful children and have been on my own so long that I don't even know whether or not I could put up with having a man around the house as I have become very independent, but who knows what the future holds there eh. I hope you had a lovely weekend with your hubby and were extra spoilt. Huggles. Ellie :D

I am a realist, the reason i say that is because i am realitic of my dream and goal that i can fulfill and achieve based on my personal ability and situation. My approach toward them is pragmatic and usually reasonably attainable .

I'll rate myself as a dreamer. I have found myself chasing same thoughts day in and day out and at the end of it all realized I wasn't living there but want to be there. As such I have done nothing to accomplish them but I will. Can't tell my dreams here.

I'm actually a bit of both. You might say this goes with the principles I believe in like Law of Attraction...the idea of "visualizing" what you want in life, so in effect daydreaming it, or as a great visual aid making up vision boards, which I literally have all over my apartment. If you don't know what vision boards, it's this. The idea is to take a stack of magazines and cut out images of the things you would like to see manifest in your life..the dream home, the perfect car, travel, money...whatever, then cut them out and paste them on a poster type board...I have one in my bedroom and it's the first thing I see when I wake up, I have a gigantic one right alongside me here near my computer desk, I even made up a "virtual" vision board and use it as a screensaver on my computer. Now while it's all fine and dandy to daydream, visualize...one has to be a realist to DO things that will help bring one to one's goals. In other words, "visualizing" or daydreaming about being a famous author is "nice"...but if one isn't actually sitting down and writing that "bestseller" it's not going to happen...want more money in your life? Then yes, nice to daydream about being a millionaire, but just daydreaming about it ain't gonna make it so...it may take baby steps...like perhaps earning extra money on-line by writing articles...it might be small steps but it could bring one to the desired goal eventually.