Stillborn

my step mom had a stillborn and she took it hard but after time she got better and i hope you do.sorry for your loss

I feel so sorry for you. You might need professional help in the beginning and friends to talk to. I am finding a lot of comfort in the promises in Bible, about a better time coming soon. You can find some interesting verses in Isaiah chapters 11 and 65 and Revelation chapter 21....

no dont think it this way..now that u have come in to this world...bo bold...and face thigs as they come ur way...

I lost 3 children, and have been blessed with 3. I believe it's all about time, hon. *hugs*

Losing someone or something you love is a very hard thing to do. Especially when the loss is totally unexpected and when you never got to get to know this baby. Try not to look at it as how can you move forward. Grieving takes a while-it most likely wont just go away. Take the time you need to heal. You carried this child and it was taken far to early. What a traumatic loss. I am a mother and I could not just get over it. Have you tried professional counseling? They can help you find positive ways to strenghten yourself. Look in your area for a support group for stillbirth or miscarriage losses. There are so many other women experiencing the same thing that you are and it would probably help to see how they are coping and have someone to talk to that truly understands your pain. Were you able to hold your child? Name your baby and take pictures or gather some form of memorabilia? You are in my thoughts and I pray that God will lay a healing hand upon you and help your pain. If you need to talk further, there are lots of people (including me) here that will listen. Let your feelings out and find someone that you can confide in. Good luck and I hope that you find the peace you need. ((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))))))