how to make a choice

February 9, 2009 11:32pm CST
today i make a choice that i will visit my relatives.but i dont have psychological preparation.because i dont go there a long time and i dont know how to exchange with them .it is so boring.can you tell me how to do?
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• China
10 Feb 09
visiting your relatives is a good experience and i think it is funny....
• United States
10 Feb 09
Visiting family can be a rewarding experience. It's what you make of it. You say it is boring, why? Are they not good conversationalists? You can ask them about themselves, what are their interests, where do they like to go and do, what was it like when they were growing up, ask about what school was like for them, did they have siblings, did they play childhood games, what are their hobbies, interests, their jobs, ask how their children are if they have them, and so forth. Make it about them and you may find out that it can be a lot more interesting than what you envision in your mind. Unless it's a toxic abusive situation, family can be a very good thing to have.