tired of family, im gonna give them up
By stardustw83
@stardustw83 (435)
United States
February 10, 2009 1:50am CST
I swear my sister and brother just have gone insane. My brother who just turned 19 and been in and out of jail already has gone back with his girlfriend who got him in trouble before not to mention that she cheats on him and he knows that, my sister who is 23 has two children and a brain tumor has decided to be with a 38 year old who does and sells drugs. Then my mother finds out calls me to complain and what am i supposed to do about it? Im tired of trying to fix their problems im only one person and i can only think of me at the moment as im a new mother so im just wondering what the heck im supposed to do what my mother wants me to do i have no idea anymore. I just want to say the heck with it i can't let my sister or brother come over and see their nefew because they are both associated with drugs and that just hurts my heart. What do i tell my nefew when he gets older and they still haven't changed their ways or worse off if they have died. I don't want to sit here and bag on my family but i also want my son to know that they chose something that took them away from their family. Grr i swear i hate being the only level headed person in my family. Anyone have a similar situation?
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3 responses
@jlamela (4897)
• Philippines
11 Feb 09
How sad your situation. You have choices always, so if you feel you are not happy anymore with your family then you can always move out and live alone. But don't forget them, please include them in your prayers so that they will also enlighten. Just choose a place that can feel you happy.
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@JHEZ924 (119)
• Philippines
10 Feb 09
Well, I guess there's no way out to your situation. You just have to admit the fact their all out of the right path. Maybe the best way to help them is to pray for them. Nothing is impossible to GOD so only His power can changed them. With regards to your child, just tell the truth and never lie. Time will come that everything will be understood. Its all in your explanation. Have faith. :)
@srganesh (6339)
• India
10 Feb 09
What a sorrowful environment you are living in!It is a good decision you made to move out of that family members and it is good you decided to speak out with you son,why you decided to get foo.May god be with you to soothe your heart.Move to a farthest place and let not your siblings know your address and live a happy life.Cheers!
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