What you do if you fail in your love?
By kguru1979
@kguru1979 (381)
India
4 responses
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
10 Feb 09
You continue to live happily, to follow your own goals, and to wait for love to find you again. Hopefully, you also learned from this past relationship so that you don't make the same mistakes in the future, whether the mistakes related to the kind of person you chose to have a relationship with or to how you treated that person. You definitely don't want to waste any portion of your life suffering over this loss. What's done is done. God put our eyes in the front and our feet in the position they're in so that we can move forward, not focus on the past.
@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
10 Feb 09
you are right, spalladino. we have all the needed things to keep on and to keep moving on forward. it is best for us to keep on finding the right person for us rather than fretting on what was lost.
mostly, the ones that we lost are those who are no deserving to be our mate. if we keep on forcing what we want, it usually turns out to be a bitter choice.
it is best to locate that soulmate who fits us best. with the soulmate, the relationship is effortless, light and happy.
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@trinidadvelasco (11401)
• Philippines
10 Feb 09
fail in love? why wallow in pain out of the failure? i will immediately pick up the pieces of my love life and then go on with life as it should be.
i am very sure that the right one for me is just hiding somewhere waiting to be found. once we meet, there will be that unmistakable chemistry coming forth.
so, if you have failed the first time, there is a second time. failed again? for as long as you live, the chances of finding the right one is unending. so, just keep on trying until you have found your true soulmate.
so, for you, kguru, do not grieve over the failure. just keep on.
@kguru1979 (381)
• India
10 Feb 09
Sure. I had some love experiences earlier with some failures too .. But I never minded that. As of now, I am married recently and loving my wife truly. It all depends on understanding your life partner .. SO if you fail in love, try to understand the next partner clearly and continue you relationship with her. That is the way of maintaining a successful love.
@apoots77 (104)
• United States
10 Feb 09
I have been in love several times in my life. I feel lucky that I have been in love more than once. Although it does hurt when it ends, I try my best to take the good times away with me and remember those times. I also try to take my not-so-good experiences in relationships and learn from them so the next one can possibly be even better. I can only work on myself...but, luckily, I'm with the best man for me now and look forward to spending the rest of my life with him. :-)
@kguru1979 (381)
• India
11 Feb 09
This is also a nice experience I think. You can come to know lot of people and their characters if you got more than one love. That could be a nice experience for you i think.
@cupcyke (363)
• Philippines
10 Feb 09
hello mylotters, if i will fail in the first, second, third i will try again to the next one. or if i will fail again ill wait the right one to come to me because i believe that God have a plan for each of us. He will give us the right person for us in a right place and in a right time.
