what you will do

India
February 10, 2009 8:56am CST
u have a very close friend...he is in need of money...but you need money to present your loved one with a gift on the valentines day if not she would break u up....what you would do
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@apoots77 (104)
• United States
10 Feb 09
Me being a female, if my fiance had a friend who was in need of a loan and my fiance wouldn't be able to get me a gift, I'd be ok with it. I think that would just be greedy and materialistic. I prefer just having time to spend with my fiance...I'm happy with that. :-) It would also make me happy to know that my fiance is willing to help out his friends when they're in need.
• India
10 Feb 09
so kind of you...thanks for responding... have a great day
@miccant (154)
• United States
10 Feb 09
If my friend need the money for something important than I would loan it to him. I think that your girlfriend should understand. I would just be happy that my husband was there with me not for what he got me. You love someone for who they are not for what they can get you. Good luck in your decission.
• India
10 Feb 09
good one...enjoy your life..all the best... thanks for responding
@ronnyb (6117)
• Jamaica
10 Feb 09
Very good dicussion ,you are caught in an interesting dilemma.You need to weigh both sitiations in terms of who needs the money more.You also have to be mindful of who who is more important to you and who is likely to forgive you as you will hurt one of them.If your friend is in a bind then give him the money but explain to your girl why you did it and I am sure she will understand but if your friend situation isnt as urgent you should go with your girl as you need her more and explain to your friend,and he should understand