Hello, I'm A Newbie On MyLot. I want to say hello to all.

My World Is Falling Apart..Help!!! - My wife of 25yrs wants to divorce and I'm devastated and feel like my world is cracking up!
Canada
February 10, 2009 6:27pm CST
Hello, my name is Paul and I am DancingRedFeather's son. My mother said I would meet alot of nice people on here and right now that is what I need as am going to go through a divorce unfortunately. So, I need some unbias people and my mother has been bugging me to join for quite awhile, so since I trust her judgement, I finally did it. hahahah. Well, I am lucky to have a woman like my mom, she is the most positive person I've ever known. She said even if finally I would have to go through a divorce that there is always a positive side and jokingly..she said..think about it..you pockest will jingle if your single again..that is why I put it in my favorite slogan hahaha. Thanks Mom..so great to have a mother who is objective even my wife adore my mother. Go figure that one out..a daughter in law who loves her mother in law..hahahha. but true my mother never ever interfered with us unless we asked her too. I'm going to stop yakking here for the moment..and wait for responses.. Thankyou all ..
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26 responses
@reulin (101)
• Philippines
11 Feb 09
if you love your wife and you'll divorce her, then yes its true that your world is falling apart..but if you'll follow what your mom said, then im pretty sure that you'll get along well soon. you know, mothers' always knows best! oh and by the way, welcome to mylot! happy mylotting!!
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• Canada
13 Feb 09
yah..that is one thing about my mother..she is always right lol
• Canada
16 Feb 09
Thanks women are usually right so I will follow your advice..thanks for the welcome..
• India
11 Feb 09
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• Canada
13 Feb 09
I'm not into games that much but thanks
• Canada
13 Feb 09
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@sukumar794 (5040)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
13 Feb 09
Hello and welcome to a whole new world of like minded people.Be positive in outlook and do not forget to discuss things out with your fellow beings up in this forum.All the very best to you.
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• Canada
13 Feb 09
Yes, it sure is great to be able to share with people and my mom was right..its grt in here. Thanks for the welcome
• China
11 Feb 09
Hello,my name is Jade. I'm also a newbie here on mylot. I'm so sorry to here your divorce. Good luck to you. I do believe you will be fine.
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• Canada
13 Feb 09
No problem lol I understood..thanks alot
• China
11 Feb 09
I just made a mistake about the word "here" in the sentence "I'm so sorry...". It should be "hear". Forgive me.
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• United States
13 Feb 09
Hey paul, how are you i hope doing well.. i just wanted to say you know what you could do is have a divorce party.. which is take the thing that reminds you the most of your past relationship and destroy and just think of it as lettin go of something old and starting something new... GOD has better plans.. be blessed.. best wishes
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• Canada
13 Feb 09
hey! what a great idea...fantastic,
• China
13 Feb 09
Hello,I'm a newbie too. And I think you are very happy because you have a enlightened mother.You are so lucky!!
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• Canada
13 Feb 09
Yes, I am pretty lucky to have a mother like she is. Not matter what she is always there.
@rubypatson (1841)
• India
11 Feb 09
Hi welcome to mylot, hope you like it here, time they say is the best healer so the time will pass by, have a great day
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• Canada
13 Feb 09
yes, but I don't think anyone ever gets over a divorce because children are involved and actually everytbody including friends so it will be always constant in my mind
@gjabaigar (2200)
• Philippines
11 Feb 09
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• Canada
11 Feb 09
wowow what a coincidence!!! hey glad you responded. hey that is great. U can add me on as a friend if you wish..I sure need some..lol..
@gjabaigar (2200)
• Philippines
11 Feb 09
oh I'm just wondering Interdistibution1. Sorry to ask you. Why you have my avatar?.... lol....
• Canada
11 Feb 09
Don,t remember where I found it lol
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
5 Mar 09
hi paul, wekcome to mylot. i just talked to your mom today for the first time. i'm sure she is a very nice lady & i love to hear sons brag on their mom. i have 2 sons & i'm not sure they ever brag on me. lol,
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
8 Mar 09
since i'm a mom of two grown sons let me give you a clue. she would love it if u bragged sometime where she could hear you. have great sunday.
• Canada
8 Mar 09
Well, I don't brag in front of her..hahaha..it's easy on here. Don't know why we guys brag about our momes to others but not in front of our mothers..maybe we just don't want her to use that hahaha
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@fasttalker (2796)
• United States
11 Feb 09
Welcome to mylot. And remember One door closed in life means another one opens. Glad you joined and hope you find a lotof goo advice and friends here. Be thankful for your mother she has a lot of good advice for you I'm sure! Happy mylotting!
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• Canada
13 Feb 09
My, I never thought I would get so many reponses..really great..makes me feel supported. Thanks alot
• Philippines
11 Feb 09
Hello, and I'm sorry for the divorce thing, but you'll make it through eventually. Yeah, MyLot is a neat place to be. I like it here--it's an ADDICTION. :))
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@nansheeca (215)
• Philippines
11 Feb 09
hi Interdistribution. Sorry to read about your divorce. Your mom's right, everything happens for a reason. Whatever is taken from you, there's something better ahead. Have faith and just enjoy myLotting.
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• Canada
13 Feb 09
Yes she moves on no matter what. Since she was 21 she cared for us 3 on her own with no outside help..she worked heself to the bone for us.
@Ruby_Dawn (617)
• Spokane, Washington
11 Feb 09
Welcome to MyLot Paul,my name is Gayle. I am sorry you are going through a divorce I cant imagine how painful that is :( but I am glad you have the support of your mother it is always great to have support in hard times
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• Canada
13 Feb 09
Thanks for the welcome Gayle. Yes,it isn't what I expected after 25yrs of marriage..but I guess that what happens when one marries too young.
• Portugal
5 Mar 09
Hi and welcome. I'm also a newbie, just as you. This will be my first post here. I hope I could make a lot more, just as you. I wish you a good time here and I hope you could meet a lot of new friends around. A kiss
• Canada
8 Mar 09
thanks for the kiss..and I wish you alot of new friends too..
@cheenlly (3477)
• Philippines
11 Feb 09
Hi Interdistibution1 my warmest welcome to you, its nice you joined here. I am sure like what your mom said you will have fun here and definitely you will surely meet a lot of friends here too. Sorry to hear about your situation right now but don't worry i am sure one day you will overcome it and just look forward to the brighter side. You are are lucky you have you have your loving mom on your side, that's a great possession you have. Just enjoy here, you can even treat this as your outlet for your emotion...lol that's what i did few years back when i was broken hearted and now i have overcome it and happy in my new relationship. Welcome again and see you around!
• Canada
13 Feb 09
Thanks..not easy but things happen and sometimes there is nothing a man can do more. Yes, my mother is quite a special lady. She is on my side as long as I am right har har har. If am wrong then she slaps my backside..hahaha.. Thanks for your concern I appreciate it.
@bcote212 (1112)
• United States
11 Feb 09
Im sorry to hear about your divorce Paul. I know that it can be a very hard and trying time. I would like to welcome you to mylot, as Im sure many before me have. You will find great people to speak with here, and you will learn alot about different cultures, as well as get to see different opinions. Again Welcome.
• Canada
17 Feb 09
thanks alot..well good news, my mom talked with both of us and we decided to give it one last go of it.
• Philippines
11 Feb 09
Welcome to mylot. Your mother is right. There are many nice people here and you will also enjoy being here. You will get a lot of support too. Happy mylotting.
• Canada
13 Feb 09
I'm seeing that..wowow..so many responses..thanks to my mom..for sure..great..thanks..
@ds6413 (2070)
• United States
11 Feb 09
Hello, welcome. Hang in there. I have been there myself,divorce that is.Hope you enjoy your time on mylot.
• Canada
13 Feb 09
yes..thanks..the is no point of return unfortunately.
• Hong Kong
11 Feb 09
Hi paul,my mom is also the greatest peopel for me.she always regards me as a child.
• Canada
11 Feb 09
Grt..my mom on the contrary..treats me as an adult..haha..but am still her baby..
• Netherlands
11 Feb 09
Hello Paul, i'm new on here aswell ^.^ + my name is also paul, so i like your name :) well i guess welcome to this site, and good luck with your divorce :\
• Canada
13 Feb 09
heheh I like u r name 2..humm i don't think luck has anything to do with divorce for sure..lol