Am I Young Now?

China
February 12, 2009 12:46am CST
I have been thinking Iam young and neednot to think about marriage now. Till this Spring Festival,I returned home found that several of my old classmates were married and some of them even had a baby.One girl was still single last Spring festival and we ever had fun together,all of them are at the same age with me....Iam quite confussed and told my Dad and Mum. To my second big surprise,they said you should also consider this matter now..... I still remember before(when in college),every vocation I returned my parents would say"child,you'd better not have a B.F. in college,after all,you are a student, study comes first..."but now..that's incredible for me.I was just out of college last June and 22 years,frankily speaking,I seldom think about this question before,all what I think is to have fun and happiness".Besides,I think,getting married to early will control our freedom and we will lose it.Really,after marriage,we should have high sence of responsibility,because we have a family.Our life will be fed up with husband,children and endless chores.We must do housework,think about family members eveyday.We won't act as we did when we were single.In a word,before action,family comes first...Oh,my God!I hate this... So my dear friends,are you,at the same age with me,still single now? And do you think I should begin to consider marriage from now on?
3 responses
• India
12 Feb 09
Hey friend.... U r 22 right... If u want to enjoy life more, my advice is not to marry... U need to request ur dad and mom that i will study more...and want to enjoy ... thats it...I think they will accept it if u say it in a type of manner that u know about ur future...
• India
12 Feb 09
it is very clear from how u view marriage that u r still very young eventhough u r 22.me being a guy and also a chavuanist,i wont think about marriage till i know for sure i can take care of my family phisically,emotionally and financially.simple as that.everybosy got their own view and i respect ur view.u said u just got out of college so i can guess y u dont want to lose ur freedom so soon.simple suggestion is DONT LET ANYONE PUSH U INTO MARRIAGE .TAKE UR OWN SWEET TIME AND MARRY WHEN U FEEL LIKE IT.happy lotting
@raynejasper (2324)
• Philippines
12 Feb 09
..well, marriage is part of life and we really have have to consider that especially at your age now.. of course, you are still young considering how you view marriage.. you could say you are ready when you are already prepared with all the responsibilities of being married.. it is not because your friends have already married that you will get marry too.. I am 24 and I just got married.. and es, the responsibility is very big most especially if you will have your own children.. there are so many things to think of.. that's why before you get married, set your mind and heart on marriage life so that you will not be hard up doing the responsibilities.. someday, you will find the man who could spend his life with you till your last breath.. I won't say that marriage life is so difficult but I wouldn't it is easy too.. It depends on how you handle your relationship as husband and wife..