Abstinence
By royalt85
@royalt85 (16)
United States
February 13, 2009 1:56am CST
I'm wondering how many other people choose not to until marriage. Rather it be for religious reasons or not. And that doesn't mean you have to be a virgin. Even if you have before but decided not to again until marriage. I'm single now and feel like the main reason is because I will not give a guy what he wants. I know I am probably just picking the wrong guys, but it is still discouraging. I feel that it is hard to find a guy that will accept me and my belief. As soon as they find out they won't get what they want they leave or cheat. Some will even try to stay around and change my mind. Those are the worst! What are everyone's thoughts on this issue? I know not "everyone is doing it". But I wonder just how many aren't. And have you found that special someone that respects your decision to wait?
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@trueheart52 (2)
• Mexico
14 Feb 09
I have chosen the path of abstinence too. Until after the "I do" and not before. Do stand firm on your conviction, for whoever truly loves you will love you for you and because of love will respect you. Don´t worry about singleness for a few months, the true one will come along. He may be faulty in some other area but true to himself on this one, remember Mr. Perfect does not exist nor Ms. Perfect.
Wish you the best!
