ex flame

This may sound harsh, BUT.... If anyone who claims to be happily married, is contemplating giving an ex flame time to catch up on lost times, or whateer, then I'm sorry... that person is fooling themselves into thinking they are happily married, because deep down inside they really are not. If you are happily married, the obvious thing to do, without hesitiation is tell the ex flame to kick rocks (sorry that's a "hiphop" term for "get lost"). That's just my opinion.

I would have to tell him to get lost. The past is past, and he is part of the past. If I'm happily married (which I am) why stir up trouble?

Well for me Past is past and you can't bring back the past. Maybe before i loved him but this is my present and future, i would not give up my family and my hubby because of him. What happened to us before will still remain in the past. I will tell him not to disturb me and my family and leave me in peace and he must moved on his life. Happy Valentines day!