Another woman

@icequeen (2840)
Canada
November 9, 2006 6:12pm CST
If you knew another woman was trying to attract your man, what would you do?
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30 responses
@reneous (716)
• United States
10 Nov 06
This has been the story of my life so far... and so far, 85% of my relationships have ended with him cheating on me (yes, I was dorky enough to calculate it out... that's a true percentage). At this point, I give up. If he's not gonna be faithful to me, I don't want him anyway.
@icequeen (2840)
• Canada
10 Nov 06
I am so sorry...I hope you find someone who will be faithful...
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@reneous (716)
• United States
10 Nov 06
Eh... it'll happen when it's time. I'm not worried about it now :)
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@citygirl (1080)
• Canada
10 Nov 06
If she can get him , she can have him. I don't want someone who doesn't want to be with me and me alone.I made it a rule in my love life I don't compete. and I stick to it . All the best
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@icequeen (2840)
• Canada
10 Nov 06
Yeah...I think I feel a little of that...but I would probably do more....
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• Australia
17 Nov 06
This is as if it was written by me... Word for Word it is how I feel. Love the "If she can get him she can have him" Apart from that I think I would just make sure the girl KNEW he was taken firstly.
@phyxius (3464)
• United States
10 Nov 06
Gouge her eyes out, tear her hair out, stomp a mud hole in her and if your husband is attracted to her also do the same to him also.
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@icequeen (2840)
• Canada
10 Nov 06
Wow....that's alot of emotion there....lol. I like your answer....lol.
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@apalachee (490)
• Australia
10 Nov 06
my initial thought would be to run her down with a military vehicle, but i have self control, and unfortunately at times i have to use it. The truth is, if you have a relationship, you cant control what your partner, thinks, wants or does. you can only pray that he loves you enough to be faithful and loyal, to tell the girl, that she is wasting her time. If it was such a big problem, i would talk to her and express my thoughts and opinion about her behaviour. if she still doesnt stop, then id probably run her down with a military vehicle. :)
@icequeen (2840)
• Canada
10 Nov 06
I like your idea...I wish I had a vehicle....lol. Thanks for the advice.
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@aakruti_new (2170)
• United States
10 Nov 06
nothing
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@icequeen (2840)
• Canada
10 Nov 06
Okay...thanks.
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• United States
10 Nov 06
I would beat that hoes butt just like I've done before!!
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@icequeen (2840)
• Canada
10 Nov 06
Wow...okay...thanks for the comments.
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@annihilus (2181)
• Italy
26 Nov 06
when I'll meet one... it is possible I'll tell you!
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@sanell (2112)
• United States
26 Nov 06
I would say that I would be pretty ticked off about it and in fact, yes I would be very concerned about the woman, not my husband though, I know he would be true and faithful to me, but the fact that someone else would go after someone who is already married in a monogomous relationship is just not a very nice person to begin with. I think that some lonely women who look at a happy marriage and they do not have that they want it really bad and will do what they can to get it by trying to attract the spouse so they can have the life that they see he has with another woman...it is strange but I think it happens a lot.
@missybal (4490)
• United States
4 Dec 06
Well I have noticed a woman hitting on my husband, and he just doesn't see it. He truely has eyes only for me and doesn't think any woman could be hitting on him. I let the girl know I am on to her and rub my happy relationship in her face. She should know better than to go after a married man.
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24 Nov 06
i would do nothing as i would like to think that i can complely trust my boyfriend and to be honest if he does go to her than that would tell me that our rel is over as if he was happy he would not
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@lucalucky (1839)
• Italy
25 Nov 06
Really a problem cos I am a man... but, not joking, I think I can't do anything, no one can. If she/he is also attract I am in trouble, if not I am save! Everyday it can happen, you have to trust and hope...
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• United States
10 Nov 06
KILL HER.
@icequeen (2840)
• Canada
10 Nov 06
Yeah...me too...lol.
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@anne_143god (5387)
• Philippines
24 Nov 06
I would not do anything.
@rsrait (567)
• India
25 Nov 06
why blame the poor women only ,men are always trying their luck ,they think the grass is green on the other side
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@Jshean20 (14349)
• Canada
10 Nov 06
Grab my boyfriends hand and walk away lol...I don't have the guts to do anything.
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@canadabis1 (1953)
• Canada
10 Nov 06
Wow....some of u women r vicious!!!...lmao
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• United States
10 Nov 06
wouldnt do anything if it is meant to be together then its meant to be
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@tapadoor (207)
• Sri Lanka
24 May 09
ha.ha.ha... well Ms.Icequeen. you get various responds... but no soloution to the question i see. just a thought, have you ever come across an sitution like this..... the question looks very weired. ok, never mind. the way i see and advise is that there are few steps in life where does a man look at another woman. ah.... well you dont have to to think only a woman looks to a man, simultaniously a man too looks at woman. but the main fact is in a married life the woman should know always and how to satisfy, care and understand the husband, and in same way does the husband too, should care, understand for the needs of a woman. so if all these understandings are there between husband and wife i dont see why that you should hesitate or be scared if all the the women in town as a look at your husbands.
@queen_bee (221)
• United States
10 Nov 06
if your ment to be together you will be together but just the same I'd kick her damn a$$! She doesnt have a right to move in on ur man if he goes for her than i'd kick his a$$ too!
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• United States
29 May 09
Well there is not much you can do. You can ask your b/f, husband, lover to stop hanging out with her so much as it makes you uncomfortable and hope he understands why you feel this way. There will always be someone prettier, more handsome, and just all around better, but your mate is your mate and you have been through alot together, so he will not be willing to give that up. Though it is not always right, women are expected to be more lenient in that guys are visual creatures and will always look at other women. If he is looking at this women then he does not need to be around her...even if he does it to boost his ego. If he is looking at other women in front of you, kindly as that he doesn't as this makes you feel insecure. I am sorry and hope you find a solution