Share troubles

China
February 16, 2009 7:30am CST
Do you usually tell the others your troubles or just keep them inside,if you like the others know your troubles ,who is the first listener you choose?
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6 responses
@LaurenInLA (2270)
• United States
16 Feb 09
Unfortunately, I'm the kind of person who tends to keep my problems bottled up inside. When I do share them, I usually talk them over with my husband. Recently, DH became extremely ill and if I didn't have my best friend for support, I don't know how I would be getting through this difficult time.
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• China
17 Feb 09
I don't like to tell my friends about my problems,but i'd like them to share their troubles with me,and they always do.After they tell me their troubles,i will do my best to help them solve the problems,or at least to encourage them to face the difficulty.they trust me very much ,and our relationship is becoming closer and closer
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@savypat (20216)
• United States
16 Feb 09
I keep most inside, why trouble others with my problems they usually have plenty of their own.
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• China
16 Feb 09
So i guess you must don't like the others tell their problems to you,right?
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• Janesville, Wisconsin
7 Apr 09
I have to share and tell my troubles.. or I start bottling them and I either explode on others, or myself.. or start growing numb and depressed... I feel that way alot lately... I feel like I am two people.. One is happy and the other is miserable... but I know that is my DID.. and I am stressed out cause I am trying to earn money to save my home.. and I am happy cause I been having good dreams, and the marshland critters returned... but I am sad cause I can not earn the money I need to save my home and marsh... and I am honestly tired of the fight cause in the end I don't give crap about money... I just want my home......and I do not feel like I can take much more of this... I am stressed and sick all the time now.. all the time...
@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
16 Feb 09
I always keep my problems when it comes to my parents. I don't want them to see that I'm having trouble. I always smile in front of them even if I'm deeply troubled. Its my boyfriend who knows everything that troubles me. I never hide anything from him.
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• China
16 Feb 09
It's good to have a boyfriend,thanks for your response.
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@vishwaskg (514)
• India
16 Feb 09
Hi there... If its a small trouble ,i usually don't tell anyone ,But if its a big trouble and keeps me worried for days i usually tell to my Parents first and later to my parents..... Cheers, Vishwas
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• China
16 Feb 09
I always kept my troubles inside before,but i found it not good to the health,i could not breath under the pressure brought by the troubles,so i have learned to share the troubles with my parents,i can still feel a little relieved even they cann't help me at all.
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• India
24 Feb 09
I usually share my problems with my family members and close friends. I guess the best way to solve your problem is to discuss it with your family members and your close friends. Because they are the ones who care for you and definitely will help you to solve your problems. Bu sharing your problem with your friends and family members you will also come more close to them. They will also feel good that you feel that they are worth sharing your problems and it will definitely make your relationship with them more stronger.
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