So, did you get any action on Valentine's Day?

Valentine's Day  - Valentine's Day cartoon
@jesssp (2739)
Canada
February 16, 2009 5:13pm CST
Did all your romantic efforts prove to be worth it on the 14th by wrapping it up with a great 'intimate encounter'? Any sweet, sexy or even embarrassing stories to share about your Valentine's bedroom activities? Unfortunately our Valentine's Day wasn't very romantic or sexy. Everything kinda fell through and to top it all off it's that time of the month and I had a vicious headache (a real one, I swear!) so we couldn't even make up for it in the bedroom. Hopefully things worked out better (and more interesting) for most of you; so if you've got a good story please share!
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@dragon54u (31628)
• United States
16 Feb 09
I have studiously avoided any involvements since my divorce three years ago so I had a very pleasant and peaceful day with my two dogs, a nice dinner complete with chocolate cake for dessert and a good movie. It was great! Sorry yours wasn't what you would have wished, but you have all the days and nights until next Valentine's Day to show your sweetie how much you love him! Why not have a late celebration next weekend? You can get all the Valentine's stuff at great markdowns!
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• Canada
16 Feb 09
good thinking dragon
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@katsmeow1213 (28895)
• United States
16 Feb 09
My Valentine's evening went just fine. The only thing that was a bit of a disaster was I bought some warming massage oil. I bought the cheap stuff because the good stuff was like $10. I'd gotten some years ago at a special store, but this year couldn't make it out to that store and had to settle for what Walmart was selling. Well this stuff was not at all warming, and using it was actually counter productive because it wasn't made for injesting (the stuff I'd gotten before was flavored). So that product ws a total flop, which was disappointing. But everything else went very well. I'd bought myself a very nice outfit to wear, and kept it secret from him, then he went to take a shower and I put it on, and lit some candles. He was very excited when he saw the outfit! Wearing stuff like that is not something I do very often!
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• Canada
16 Feb 09
But it makes you fell good about yourself, right? I tried one of those warming gels from one of those specialty shops once. It was too hot and ruined our fun.
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• United States
17 Feb 09
Yes it did make me feel good, although the panties were uncomfortable. The time I got the good gels, they were from Spencer's gifts. Those were good ones, they had nice flavors and warmed well, not too hot, and only when you rubbed them.
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@jesssp (2739)
• Canada
17 Feb 09
I've bought the cheap stuff before and it was about as sexy as rubbing icy hot all over each other. It had a real chemical burning feeling to it and to top it off the coloring turned us both red. I'm glad you got to enjoy some romance with your man this Valentine's Day!
• United States
17 Feb 09
Unfortunately although I am very blessed, I just had a baby 3 weeks ago and wasn't able to get really intimate with my husband! We tried to cuddle but my 1 year old woke up and wanted to play, and the newborn had to be fed and changed, so no time to get too close (LOL)!!! Hopefully it will be different next year!
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@jesssp (2739)
• Canada
17 Feb 09
That's ok, at least your Valentine's Day was full of love!
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@iwrite (5040)
• Singapore
16 Feb 09
well jesssp, I did have some action, however I do not think it is important because the day was valentine's day, I think it is important because we have feeling for each other. The day is over rated, we have forgotten it is the feeling of each other that matters.
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• Canada
16 Feb 09
still it is nice to have a day to remind us to be mindful of our partners. All too often, people fall into a pattern of behaviour and they take their partner for granted. At least Valentines Day reminds us to keep your chose mate foremost in your mind.
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@iwrite (5040)
• Singapore
17 Feb 09
I do not know about your Dragonofgold, However I would feel rather sad if my partner would need a special day or something to remind her not to take me for granted. I think sometimes we give ourselves too much options and excuses. You know full well what is expected of you. Do you really need valentines day to remind you. I think anniversary is more meaningful anyway, why because on Valentines day everyone is celebrating so what is so special anyway.
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@jesssp (2739)
• Canada
17 Feb 09
I agree that couples should show each other how they feel every day, but it's still nice to take one special day a year to celebrate it rather than just show it. I don't think Valentine's Day needs to be about flowers and gifts but it is nice to have a romantic celebration.
• United States
17 Feb 09
well my v day was extremely romantic me and my fiancee made the best love that we have ever had in the whole time we have been together and that is 2 years and we are getting ready to get hitched real soon and i bet that will beat v days excitement 10 to nothing. The whole reason i say it was the best is that she left me and i left her gasping for air and we were getting hella hot in the room and alot of people get all upset when they hear about these things but if you scared go to church lol but that is only a part of my story but i am gone peace.
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@jesssp (2739)
• Canada
17 Feb 09
That's good to hear, sounds like a great time!
• United States
17 Feb 09
Sure I got a lot of action on Valentine's Day. NOT !!! I wish that Valentine's Day had never come and that I could have just skipped that holiday. My significant other only bought me a pair of sneakers and then we broke up the next day. He told me that I really didn't deserve anything which hurt my heart to the core. I am not a lover of this stupid holiday. I wasn't even going to celebrate this day because this was the day my baby had passed and I still feel hurt about that. So as you can see my Valentine's Day totally sucked.
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@jesssp (2739)
• Canada
17 Feb 09
I'm really sorry to hear all that; I can see why this wouldn't be your favorite day. I hope you can take some time out to spoil yourself and not worry about your ex (who sounds like a jerk).
• China
17 Feb 09
Hi, Feb 14th is just my birthday! But that day, my wife and I had not any romantic actions. Her congratulations was perfect enough to me. We love each other, and would better put this love into our own heart. We think it would last more longtime.
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@jesssp (2739)
• Canada
17 Feb 09
It's my mom's birthday too!
@clorissa123 (4930)
• United States
17 Feb 09
I don't have an exciting story to share with all of your guys, sorry. I plain Valentine's day just went through. Unfortunately, I had to work that day, and I didn't really meet up with my girlfriend. I did take her to shopping on the day before. We took a Valentine's day picture on the photo kiosk that day. I think that was sweet for us. Because I love that pic, even though I wasn't look that good on the pics. I hope that we have a better Valentine's time next year. And you too.
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@jesssp (2739)
• Canada
17 Feb 09
It's nice to have a picture though. Then every time you look at it you will think of the day!
• Canada
16 Feb 09
My spouse and I had a WONDERFUL Valentine's Day, despite the fact we are evil nasty stinky broke right now. I found a truly bargain deal on a yellow flowery silk chemise, which came down to Just barely past my good stuff. And then at bedtime , Oooops, I dropped my pillow on the floor and had to pick that up. (tee hee) And then about 45 minutes later I breathlessly went to get a couple of glasses of cold water from the fridge. Happy HAPPY Valentines Day to us. Sigh! {sorry if that was kinda braggin' but I luuuv that man!}
@jesssp (2739)
• Canada
17 Feb 09
Hey, brag away! It's great to hear that you celebrated the day with romance & intimacy and not by just throwing money at it. That's what the day should be about!
@huggybau (24)
• Italy
17 Feb 09
obviously yes :-D
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@tea512 (687)
• United States
17 Feb 09
This came between payday for both the wife and I, so we were broke as joke. Instead of flowers I rented her a movie (rodanthe nicolas sparks) and offered to cook out the grill. When went to the bedroom she was dressed for loving. We caressed and held each other. Took our time nice and slow and we both got to where we needed to be. It was a great night that was inexpensive but rich in all the other areas.
@jesssp (2739)
• Canada
17 Feb 09
Aww, that sounds like a perfect Valentine's Day to me! I don't think it's about how much money you can spend, it's about how you feel about each other and how you express it.
@tea512 (687)
• United States
18 Feb 09
So you have had a couple of days to get over your headache, have your rocked a belated VD for your loved one. If you can make it happen turn your clocks back to Saturday night and make up for lost time. Good Luck
• Canada
17 Feb 09
Yes,yes i did.My husband and i had my mother in law taking care of the kids all night and we had the house to ourself.we went out for drink and came home to spend the rest of the evening making each other happy.:)
@jesssp (2739)
• Canada
18 Feb 09
Perfect, sounds like a great way to spend the evening!
@Humbug25 (12551)
17 Feb 09
Hi ya jesssp Nope I had a very uneventful Valentines Day. I don't have a boyfriend right now but have my eye on someone and sent him a card, shame he didn't do the same!! He claims not to know my address!! As I am a single mum I didn't go out either as I'd have to pay a babysitter, a luxury one can't really afford!
@jesssp (2739)
• Canada
17 Feb 09
That's too bad, hopefully he'll surprise you later on!
@sharay (2769)
• India
17 Feb 09
Nope...unfortunately, feb 14th was in the middle of my menstrual period...
@jesssp (2739)
• Canada
17 Feb 09
Yep, it was the tail end of mine.
@bellaofchaos (11549)
• United States
18 Feb 09
Well my other half had to work most of the day for valentines day plus earlier that week our power had been knocked out due to highwinds and I was in the process of moving our family back to the house. LOL!! So it was all work and no play ofr me.
• Philippines
17 Feb 09
Nope. Nothing so much in action LOL :) He's living in a far away land. We belong to a "Long Distance Relationship" but we communicated a lot over the phone.
@apples99 (6561)
• United States
17 Feb 09
LOL no but I still had a little fun to spite the lack of action hehe.
@mansha (6301)
• India
17 Feb 09
Well we had to attend a function on that day and their some other gentlemen offered me flowers they had kept for decorating as a valentine gift then my hubby also took out one from a vase an gave it to me. Though I did dedicate a romantic number to him for the valentine day. Overall it was a fun as we danced a lot and basically enjoyed the company of our friends.
@mmc_vip (24)
• Romania
17 Feb 09
i didn't do anything on valentine's day :((((
• India
17 Feb 09
hiii jesssp..gud posting..I have not done any funny activitieson valentines day..me and my girlfriend just gone to restaurent,beach and some places we just enjoyed a lot and then the routine gone to houses this is my activity on valentines day...happy mylotting....