Can a GIRL and a BOY really be friends?
February 17, 2009 2:18am CST
Now I have a situation,I came across one townee on the internet,he is in the army,we talked many times on the phone.We are in the same city. But we did't meet yet,I am single,and i deduced that he is single too, I am wondering if we two can be friends or lovers? Do you believe there is pure friendshiop between a girl and a boy?
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18 Feb 09
It depends on the circumstances. To me internet friends are no friends at all. As for me my friends (most of them) are ladies. And i even have like three of them that we've been friends for atleast ten years. I av never ask my female friend out and i won't.Its all about principles. ALthough in terms of secreats and personal life, no one knows more than 40% of me but we are good friends. We kiss, they dress in my presence, i know there guys.there s-e-xual life with thier hubby. They even tell me if a guy ask them out. Personally i'll say the bst friends (that can be honest to each other the most) is opposite s-e-x. Most times it takes maturity and strong principles to be a friend with the opposite s-e-x. My female friends know that i can't ask them out, because i av made them reallize that. So they see me more trust worthy that thier bf.ITS ALWAYS INTERESTING BEING WITH THE OPPOSITE S-E-X!!!!!!!
17 Feb 09
Yes, absolutely. A boy can make friend with a girl and keeps this relationship pure. Take me as an example, I have a really good female friend. We got to know each other when we were in the same college. The reason making us be friend is a lot of common sense we enjoying, and the reason why we cannot be lovers is because we are not able to meet each one's requirement of being a lover. To be honest, I don't really know how to explain the detail, there is just a thing between us and we just know we cannot go deeper to be lovers. After graduating, we went to the two different cities. But we still keep in touch via MSN, phone or emails. Since we just come to the real society, we are facing lots of issues and hard pressures. So we really need each other's support. But this support is not the same with the one from lovers. Even more, I am single now. If I have a girl-friend one day, I think we shall still get along with each other very well. However, for sure, we may have to control the distance on that day...
17 Feb 09
Its very important that you meet his family, because he might just be playing around on his wife. Check out his parents first, before you get serious. That would be my first priority. After that you can decide if you want him for a lover. Its quite unusual for 2 young people of different genders to be friends, without becoming lovers. Check him out very carefully before you get serious. You would not want to steal a husband and father away from his family.