are you too dependent on your mom to clean up your mess?

United States
February 18, 2009 7:54pm CST
When we were children, our parents are likely to clean up our mess. My mom take out the trash, clean the house, wash the dirty laundry, she even cook for us. I admitted that I am too dependent to my mom. Now, she is taking vacation in China, I felt like I am helpless without her. I couldn't cook, and I am too lazy to clean my own bathroom. Aren't you guy are also too depedent on your mom to do all the chores?
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6 responses
@cherriemae (3370)
• Philippines
20 Feb 09
Hello clorissa, i am dependent with my parents since i was a child, but now that i am already a mother, though i'm still living with them, i know how to take care of all of the house chores.. we've been practiced with all of the chores, also we know how to cook, fixed all the mess.. we realy dont have to be dependent for the rest of our life because our parents are not always there for us.. hope that you will have the ability to help your self.. good luck and God Bless
@ddfreedie (690)
• India
19 Feb 09
yupp...am always dependent......but i can do some of the work myself like cleaning ma wardrobe ironing my dress etc
• Philippines
19 Feb 09
I was shy to admit but yes, I'm too dependent on my mom. She cooks for me, makes my laundry and the dishes and I appreciate her a lot for doing that. I love my mom and I know that someday, I would re-pay all the good things she'd done for me. I will be the one who'll take care of her in the future. But for right now, all I could say is thanks for all her effort in taking good care of me and our family. My life gets better because of her.
@hmkoct5 (2065)
• United States
19 Feb 09
Yes, I was! My Mom didn't let me do anything. She liked to do it herself. So, when I got married, I had a hard time. I didn't know how to do anything. I have learned though. We're trying to teach our children how to do things on their own now, so they won't have the same problem.
• United States
19 Feb 09
I am in college and I have no idea how to do laundry. I am pretty good at cleaning my room and making dinner. But i do feel helpless when it comes to laundry.
@kiki0612 (11)
• China
19 Feb 09
Yes I am.I am a student and am always busy studying,so my mom dont let me do any housework.Studing is just a excuse.I am so lasy,and I hate watshing clothes,sweeping the floor.Most of my classmates can cook,but I cant.Actually I an so sorry about my mom.