What do you hate the most in your lover??

@bhawnam (1436)
India
February 19, 2009 2:02am CST
For me it is his habit of turning deaf when doing work.. It just makes me go mad when he does so and i feel like i am talking to the wall.. What is it in your lover that you just can't take??
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@elghrasya (501)
• Philippines
19 Feb 09
same as yours...sometimes he lets me do the work alone and all that he will do is to watch tv. He will command me and tell me to do this but you know what will I do? I will ignore him and I will not talk to him.
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@bhawnam (1436)
• India
19 Feb 09
Thats some smart thinking.. :-)
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• Philippines
20 Feb 09
it's my husband's procrastination... simple and small works won't be accomplished. Just like when we moved in to a new house... it takes a month and a half before the TV antenna was fixed.
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@makingpots (11915)
• United States
19 Feb 09
I can sincerely say I don't hate anything about my lover/husband. Sure, he can annoy me to no end at times, but I'm pretty sure I love even the little annoyances about him. Yes, there are things about him that I just can't take..... but it makes up who he is as a person, and I love that person dearly.
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@makingpots (11915)
• United States
24 Feb 09
Thanks for the best response, bhawnam.
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
20 Feb 09
I do not like to dwell on the negative. I would much rather think of the good moments than consider the negative ones. cheers!!!
@krajibg (11923)
• Guwahati, India
19 Feb 09
Well many people have different things that they do not like in their love even though they love each other. When I was still in my college ( a student ) I was in love with a girl and we really loved each other very much. What I disliked about her was her possessiveness. She was too much into this tat if I was seen talking with some other girls she would suspect and would not talk to me for the reason best known to her and only after repeated request she would tel the reality and the reason was that. Its funny.
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@bhawnam (1436)
• India
19 Feb 09
yes i know... some people are like that.. but being possessive i a bit natural, but yes being over possessive is bad.
@neha2k94u (406)
• India
20 Feb 09
Well he is not even a bit talkative... I hate when he says...What shud I say...
@stacyv81 (5903)
• United States
19 Feb 09
Definitely his temper. He gets so frustrated when trying to do something or when something doesnt go smoothly. I hate it! It stresses me out! lol
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• Philippines
19 Feb 09
i hate it so much whenever my partner cannot control his temper..eventhough he is infront of my family and friends..if he doesn't like what is happening or anybody is insulting him..he will ready go mad and become annoyed..he cannot control his words and he can hurt you by merely talking sarcastically..it's really difficult to deal with him once he loses his control..
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
19 Feb 09
I hate when he ignores me by not saying anything back to me when I ask him a question. I hate it when he catches an attitude with me. I also hate it when his voice gets nasty in a mean way. Or when he says something in a blunt way with me, and will not take it back. I can't stand this in him! If God could get rid of all these negative traits our relationship would be better! I know how you feel.. My lover turns the deaf ear too. I wished that this issue would change in him..
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@bhawnam (1436)
• India
19 Feb 09
we all wish for so much to change in our relationships but things seldom change... !!
@delkar (1712)
• Romania
19 Feb 09
well, now i`m staying with a girl that i don`t ever like her, but this another story, and i hate almost everything at her. She`s snorring and i`m not, she`s having gase on her mouth, and much more. i can`t tell her thouse things, but she already knows that i don`t wanna be with her anymore. Even she knows that, i promised her that we`ll stay together until the summer will come and just until then. How can a love a girl that makes what she makes? I hate that..
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@forslahiri (1042)
• India
19 Feb 09
Hi, when she should be ANGRY(with me), she SMILES.... =Lahiri,Kolkata,India.
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@dorayaho (101)
• China
19 Feb 09
He smokes, i don't like it.
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• China
19 Feb 09
hi,for me ,when we talk with his fellows or his boss,he ask me to treat them as the way which he want me to do,which is just the way I hate most.It just makes me mad. I think I can do a good job while he just do not believe me!
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@Canellita (12029)
• United States
11 Mar 09
To be honest, I can't think of a single thing. Don't get me wrong, he can drive me nuts but we usually end up laughing aboout whatever it is. Being in a relationship requires a tremendous amount of patience.