Hard come, easy go

@p1kef1sh (45681)
February 19, 2009 4:27pm CST
Just imagine for a moment that you owned your own house. If you do already it might be easier to imagine than if you don't. Let's say that you decide to sell it; and rent a smaller property cheaply from a relative whilst you house hunt for a new one. You got say $100,000 for your house and that's sitting quietly in the bank. Now let's say that you meet man who is doing such wonderful work helping the less fortunate that you decide to give him: $100,000! This leaves you penniless, but with the conviction that you have dome more good than you might have done just by buying some bricks and mortar. Could you give that $100,000 away like that? What would you say to someone that did?
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
19 Feb 09
If the money was spendable as I hope it would be if my fiance and I were ready to buy a house, I would give it to the man. Now ofcourse I would want to make sure that my money was safe and would go where it was needed and not where it was not (aka a greedy man (or woman's) pocket). I don't like the idea of too much construction, or unnecessary construction, so hey.. I would give it away.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Feb 09
That's very generous and to leave yourself penniless is even more so.
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• Regina, Saskatchewan
19 Feb 09
It would depend on my stage of life. Altruism is a wonderful thing when there are years ahead to 'recoup' such a generous gift. At this point, I'd give away a third maybe, but not the whole kit and kaboodle. The hubs would KILL me! Now stop listening in on my phone calls willya, you're beginning to scare me! LOL
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• Regina, Saskatchewan
20 Feb 09
Shhhhhhhhhh! You weren't supposed to hear that! Now I have to throw a party to offset their expense. Booze is a wonderful bribe.........................LOL
@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Feb 09
This couple were Amish and about 30 Sparky. Now, did you really say that to the truck company about charging them rent for parking their truck in your hole?! LOL.
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@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
20 Feb 09
Wow, very generous people. My husband owns the trailer and land we live in but if we were to sell it and he seen someone else needed some of the money I am sure he would give them some.But all of it I am not sure about that.even with the conviction that the person could do good with it. I am not a stingy person by no means, but I know what it is to do without and go without when no money. So I would want to hold on to a little bit to tide us over so I know we will be at least able to get what we need.
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@mtdewgurl74 (18151)
• United States
20 Feb 09
@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Feb 09
I agree Becky. The couple that gave the money are Amish and seemed quite happy with their decision. I don't think that I could do it though.
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@nannacroc (4049)
20 Feb 09
They are either extremely generous or totally insane. No I'm afraid I wouldn't give all the mney to helping the less fortuneate, maybe some of it but you need somewhere to live and you can always leave the proceeds of a house sale in your will. Being of a suspicious nature even if I thought about giving money to anyone I'd met who said they were helping others I'd have to make a thorough check before giving anything.
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@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
22 Feb 09
But Pikey, doncha know that all you need is God's love and if you pray to him your prayers will be answered...maybe not how you want or how you think they should but they will be answered.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
21 Feb 09
I'm all for philanthropy Nanna, but I don't think that I could do it. Handing all that they is between me and the workhouse seems drastic and in my case, ill judged!
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@jillhill (37354)
• United States
19 Feb 09
To be honest.....no. If I were to give it to anyone it would be my own children. And I wouldn't want to be penniless.....If someone did it and it was what they wanted to do with their money..good for them!
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Feb 09
I am the same Jill. I like to think that I might, but I know that I probably couldn't. The couple that did are Amish.
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• Canada
19 Feb 09
No, I could never give away everything I had. Say to someone who did?..... Um, STUPID!
@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Feb 09
They are Amish Annie and seemed to view the whole thing quite easily. I don't think that I could though.
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• Canada
20 Feb 09
Poor sods. Prolly think doing something THAT selfless will get them into heaven.
@makingpots (11915)
• United States
20 Feb 09
If I'm being honest, a lot would depend on the work this man is doing for the less fortunate. If I'm on board with it I could see giving a portion of my earnings. But I don't imagine I could leave myself penniless to do this good deed. I think I would consider other ways I could assist. Sometimes the gift of time is more valuable than money.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Feb 09
The couple that did this were Amish Pots. That does make a difference I think. I don't think that I could just give away my savings like that. I agree about the time thing. Not that people are always grateful! LOL.
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@palonghorn (5479)
• United States
20 Feb 09
In today's economy, I'd say they were crazy! No I couldn't do that, not if that was the money I was planning on buying another house with. For one thing, I would have obviously made a deal with my relative to rent cheaply while I looked for another house, not to rent cheaply for an extended period of time. I wouldn't feel right telling them, oh by the way, I gave all my money away, so I'll be living in your house for a long time now.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Feb 09
They are Amish and felt that there need for the money was much less than the person that they gave it away to. I couldn't do it.
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• United States
20 Feb 09
Ah well that explains it, they have very different beliefs. I lived near Amish country in Pa, until I moved this week, to Virginia
@dragon54u (31636)
• United States
20 Feb 09
I'd say it's irresponsible, although it's a wonderful thing to think about. What about the retirement years? What about your own family? Now, you could argue that by helping that charity you're helping your family and it would be true but that's not direct help. What if you had a financial emergency? You'd borrow from your children and be a burden to them? There's so much right with giving the money away but so much that it wrong. I could give away a chunk of it or better yet, put it in a CD or something and donate the money it makes to the charity.
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@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Feb 09
Those are all thoughts that any of us would have. However, this couple are Amish and their standards and expectations are different to most perhaps. That said, the couple had been excommunicated by their church. They seemed very happy though.
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@gemini_rose (16264)
15 Apr 09
I honestly cannot see myself doing that at all, me and money are not easily parted at all so I definately would leave it sitting quietly in the bank hehe. I do not know that I would say anything to anyone who did it, its their choice at the end of the day. I think if it was my parents or my hubby that did that though then I might have a few things to say to them about it!
@p1kef1sh (45681)
16 Apr 09
I think that I'd be like you too Gemini. There's a part of me that would love to be that philanthropical, but in truth I know that I couldn't be. At least not without having millions salted away somewhere else.
20 Feb 09
Hi p1key, I'd say absultley madness, I wouldn't leave myself penniless, not for anyone, if I had to work hard for the money and anyway I wouldn't trust this person who suppose to be doing wonderful work for others, no way, I see a con artist for miles. Hugs. Tamara xxxx
@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Feb 09
I don't think that I could do it Tamara. However, this young couple, who are Amish, did so quite freely. Makes you wonder. XXXX
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@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
20 Feb 09
If all I had was $100,000 and no home I would keep the money. If I had a decent home and all I needed I would not hesitate giving the money away. I would like to think that once I have everything I need and by that I don't mean a diamond collar for my dog, I can help another. As much as I love luxuries there is only so much stuff that you need, after all you can only drive one car at a time or wear one pair of shoes at a time.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Feb 09
That's just it. That money represents everything that you have. I don't think that I could be that generous.
• United States
20 Feb 09
If I didn't need it I would. There's not many people who couldn't use that much cash to pay most if not all of their bills. But hey, if you got that kinda moola...share it!
@p1kef1sh (45681)
21 Feb 09
If I didn't need it that might be different. But this was everything that this Amish couple had. I admire them, but couldn't emulate them.
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@ankithat (87)
• India
20 Feb 09
no...i don't think I'd have done something like that.......but if someone did that...it would be nice of them... though, i'd say that everyone in this world has face difficulties....we are not here to help every one else out.......we can do to some extent but not to the limit that it harms us...:-)
@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Feb 09
If you feed a man and end up starving yourself then I don't think that you've been terribly clever! I agree with you, although I do believe that we are here to help each other where we can.
• India
21 Feb 09
ya....you're right....:-)
@jwfarrimond (4473)
20 Feb 09
Hmmm..Idiot? Though, if I gave this humanitarian all of my money, then I could be the next in line for a hand out of some of my own money.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Feb 09
Quite possibly. LOL.
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
22 Feb 09
The thing is Pikey...I wouldn't be able to trust anyone that much. I have a hard time giving to charity for that reason because I reckon the money rarely gets to where it's supposed to go...not without a good deal going to "administrative costs" first.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
22 Feb 09
I share your skepticism. You hear too many horror stories.
@GreenMoo (11834)
28 Feb 09
Hmm, hard one. If the money was tucked away and wasn't earmarked for anything or working as my day to day funds then I guess it would be easier to wave good bye to it. I think it would also get easier the longer it was tucked away. However, it would take something pretty inspirational to persuade me to part with that much cash. Money isn't the be all and end all of happiness, but I'd be unable to set aside the thought that I'd be throwing away my kid's security net. Perhaps it would become easier if my kids were grown and self sufficient. Tell you what, give me $100,000 so I know what it feels like, and I'll be able to give you a more accurate assessment!
@p1kef1sh (45681)
28 Feb 09
That's a great idea. Then you can give it back to me as I will have nothing. Couldn't lend me $99,999 could you please?
24 Feb 09
I would be amazed that someone would give away all their money to charity if it would leave them penniless. I dont think I would be able to donate all of it, maybe a quarter of it or something. Im sure that money would be more useful to a charity where it can help loads of people than just buy a house. It would be nice to meet someone so generous.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
24 Feb 09
I don't think that I could do it Cinders and I'm not in a position to try! LOL.
• Lubbock, Texas
20 Feb 09
While I'm willing to share, I'm afraid I'm a little too selfish to give it all away. Or maybe I'm just insecure in the faith that what goes 'round comes 'round. I would want a little security for myself.
@p1kef1sh (45681)
20 Feb 09
I could share to Mom. But not give it all away. If I am truthful, and I know that you want me to be, then I might need to be convinced to share with a stranger. A friend can have the shirt off my back (if they launder it!).
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23 Feb 09
Well, I'm not sure if this is what you want to hear, but I don't think it would be very wise to give ALL your money away like that. You would then become one of the less fortunate and the man would have to give you back some of the money you had just given him. I think churches used to say, that it is good to tithe or give 10% of your income away to charity or good causes. There are some who believe that when you give away your money freely, that it circulates and does much good. Though you may be poorer, you become spiritually enriched and are the better for it. It can be good to set up a "standing order" with your bank, to give to good causes, on say a monthly basis to coincide with your salary. That way, once the decision is made, your donation just keeps recurring!
@p1kef1sh (45681)
24 Feb 09
I agree with you. Better to give a little and still live yourself thus allowing yourself to do it again if fortune graces you. However, the couple that did do this are Amish and they have a slightly different perspective then we other mortals. I admire them for it, but couldn't do it myself.