no discussion started: have you encountered any member who is like this?

My thoughts are that new members just reply to other discussions at first to get an idea of myLot. I am new to the site as well and I did not start any discussions at first. I was the same just replying to other discussions. My post count was well over 200 before I started my own discussions. I have not started many discussions on here but I do reply to a lot of others and find it fun. I think it does not really matter if people do not start discussions, just as long as they have something good or fun to add to other discussions.

maybe they don,t have anything to say we all have a voice here maybe they don,t want to be heard are just laying back taking it cool.sure it odd because there is plenty to discuss.sometimes your mind just go blink and you just can,t come up with something to say.it,s not as easy as we would think to start a discussion.

Give our new friend some times to overcome the shyness or shock he or she has, then everything will go on smoothly later on, the first topic is always the hardest to come by based on my personal experience in Mylot. Happy mylottting, my friend.

Yes, I think thezone is right. When I started on here, 3 weeks ago, I think, I wanted to know how it all worked, so I was just responding. Then I started thinking of things to start discussions about.

Ya its true,,even i have seen some profile who has more than 300 responce but no discussion started..Even i m new to Mylot and have started few discussion of my level..I hope you all cooperate with me and help me in reaching to the level that you all have reached..!! Regards:-abhi.

I am new, I just joined today. The first thing I did was respond to someones post. I couldn't figure out how to create my own post at first. Also, maybe they don't feel that have anything to contribute. Or maybe they are trying to get ideas on what to talk about through reading many posts and in the process decide to comment on what they are reading about. Anyways, this is now offically my favorite website. Although I don't know if I am doing my discussions right because I don't seem to have any responses except on the one that says I am new. haha!

I think that some people like to responde more then starting a discussion maybe because they don't know what to start a discussion about or maybe they just don't want to,not sure but I hope to start more discussions in the future I hope that you have a great day.

[i]Hi se7, I have tried that also. It was a new member responding in my post and I checked her profile to respond also in her post and found out that she didn't start anything! She was active responding! But, I have not seen any older member here who have not posted anything! Maybe for newbie, this is common! Enjoy![/i]

I think I've started maybe 2 or 3. I really prefer answering an existing post than to starting one. I don't know, I guess I really can't think of anything to start one about.

yes i do.so many here dont have discussion or some has discussions but a year ago.he is active but the discussion was just 2 yrs.

yes, sadly, my own referral hasn't started any discussions yet...

I guess that everyone has different things that they are looking for here on mylot. Some of them are just here to make friends and chat, others are here to make some money and I am sure that there are lots of other reasons that people join as well. I don'tfind it that surprising but it is a little strange, especially for someone that has been here for a while.