Does your dog listen to anybody?

@mermaidivy (15395)
United States
February 20, 2009 9:30am CST
or only listen to you? My dog is very sensitive of my voice when I said something, he responds very quickly.
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@JoyfulOne (6232)
• United States
20 Feb 09
My dog will listen to my commands over anybody elses. She does listen to my family if they issue a command and I'm silent, but not to a stranger issuing one. She has been taught that way because she's a guard dog, and as a dog that guards, she wouldn't be effective if she just listened to anybody and everybody. She's also been trained not to take food from somebody that is not family. In other words, if somebody broke in and threw her a steak, she would ignore it, and if they told her 'go lay down doggie' she wouldn't lol.
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
26 Feb 09
Can you tell me how do you train her not to listen to everybody but just you and your family? like when somebody instructs her then you said no? Ii'm teaching him using the other language so I am the only one to command him. Thank you for your response! :-)
@JoyfulOne (6232)
• United States
27 Feb 09
First thing, you have to establish yourself as 'alpha' to them. Dogs are pack animals and there is always the leader of the pack. They have a 'pecking order' just like other animals, and your dog quickly learns that family members are inbetwen you (alpha) and the dog. You must be the ultimate leader of the pack lol. If you issue a command, they quick learn that if the command to sit isn't followed, you will push their butt down (gently) until they get the message that you are the one who does the rules and enforces them. And when you do it, you always give them praise (they respond better to loving praise than to harsh words...and I never hit!) I don't know if this is the conventional (or right) way to do it, but when my girl was a pup I'd have her on a lead. When somebody non-family would try to get her to come, I'd pull her back and say 'come' and then pet and praise her. It took some collaboration with friends to teach her that, in other words, they knew what I was trying to accomplish, and knew why I was training her the way I was. I also did a double duty at the same time when teaching her her commands. I also used hand signals (also known as silent signals.) Only my family knows this set of hand signals. For instance, she knows if I take my hand at waist level, and give one quick 'queen wave' that I want her to sit. If I take my hand at waist level, and put it out palm down and make a flat motion down, that I want her to sit. She knows that if I turn and look at her with a certain 'face' that I want her to growl and bark a warning...and not stop until I verbally tell her to. With food, I got her to NOT take it from anybody else in this way: I'd have some treats, or a little people food, and give her some, pet and praise. Then I'd have a friend have some of the same food, and offer it to her. She was on a leash and when the friend tried to get her to come, I'd issue a 'come' and 'stay' command, gently tug on the leash, and tell her to sit. Then I would praise and give her my own treat. It took some time and patience, but she learned that I was the only one she should take food from. When I did the exercizes with members of my family, she would look at me when they would call her with the treat, and I'd tell her go ahead, and then praise her. In my mind, this establishes that family members are part of the 'pack' and they are higher in the pack than she is. She listens to commands for sit, lay down, etc from my grandson when he was only 3 (she knew that my grandson was higher in the pack order than she was lol) I live in the country on a farm, and there really aren't any neighbors around that are close. Most of the time I'm pretty much alone here, unless the family is here. There are many strangers that show up at my door begging for a hunting permit, permission to use their 4-wheelers, and things like that. I have always trained my dogs like that, just so that I could feel safer. She is the worlds sweetest dog, and she knows that if I'm comfortable with somebody at the door, she should just lie there and mind her manners...and she also knows if I'm slightly tense because the person on the other side of the door makes me nervous. It's my belief that when our dogs know we're 'leader of the pack' and can sense more than we know:-) Almost like a psychic connection lol. Anyways, that's how I do it, and it has worked well for me with the dogs I've had here. It does take time, and it takes patience, but behind all the training, the dog knows that it's really loved and will do anything for their pack. Didn't mean to write a book here hahaha. Hope this helps some :-)
• United States
27 Feb 09
My dog has gotten so old that he doesn't hear well any more, so he does not respond to any body.... Poor baby.
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
27 Feb 09
It always very sad to hear dog s getting old :-( :-( I have a 13 years old sheep too... :-(
• Philippines
23 Feb 09
we have 2 dogs. our shih tzu sometimes has a stubborn streak. lol! sometimes he pretends he doesn't hear us. meanwhile our mini schnauzer listens to only us. he's a scaredy cat and when there are strangers he prefers to stick with us slowly taking his time to know them. but both of them know when we are angry. they're really well behaved.
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
26 Feb 09
They are like toy dog, very cute hehe Thank you for your response! :-)
@TnWoman (1895)
• United States
20 Feb 09
hello mermaidivy i have a female dog and her name is Doughnut, i have a picture of her on my Mylot profile if you'd like to go look at her. but anyways, she pretty much obey's everybody that is in our family, and even when my parents or my brother comes by here to visit with us, she will obey them as well. she is such a smart dog, she knows how to sit, stay, lay down, shake hands and she also gives hugs. isn't that sweet of her? oh yeah, and she will give you a kiss as well. and she never hardly ever does anything in the house anymore, she goes outside to do her dirty work. lol my ten year old son gave her a bath last night by his self for the first time, he will be eleven this Saturday, he is plenty old enough to start to care for the dog like that. and yes, Doughnut responds very quickly also when one of us is talking to her. she is like one of the family to all of us. btw, what kind of a dog do you have? thanks for sharing. take care and have a beautiful day today!
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
26 Feb 09
Your puppy is so cute hehe ^_^ I have a yellow lab dog, he is only 6 months old, I want to teach him not to listen to anybody but his personality is just very friendly so I'm learning how to do it. Thank you for your response! :-)
• United States
20 Feb 09
I like my dogs to only listen to members of the family, not strangers. My boys will listen to people they know, and that's it. They listen to everyone who lives in the house, even my 3 year old niece, and close friends of the family that come over a lot, but they won't listen to people they don't know unless I say it's ok. I hate when people come into my house and try to tell my dogs what to do!! I think it's very rude. I don't walk into anyone's house and start ordering their kids around, LOL, and I get very annoyed if someone does it to my dogs. There's a difference if the dog is annoying them or being bad, like jumping, and they say "down" or something to that effect, but if they start telling the dogs "out of the room" or something like that, I tell the person the dogs live here and they don't! LOL
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
26 Feb 09
yea I don't like that either, sometimes when I bring them to petco and people just come and pet him, I don't like it. THey should ask me first if they want to say hi to him, that's what I think. Thank you for your response! :-)