My husband is is always under huge pressure...

@mermaidivy (15394)
United States
February 20, 2009 9:39am CST
What can I do as a wife? I really want to help him feel no more stressful? :-( I feel so upset to hear he is so stressed all the time and I cannot help much... I make good dinner for him everynight and don't ask him about work stuff avoid aggravating him. I am very stressful too but I don't say it because it will make him feel even worse... What can I do to relief his pressure? What do you wify do when he is stressed? I hope to hear some advices, thank you very much:-)
2 responses
@ank_47 (1959)
• India
20 Feb 09
ask him to control his pressure in office,by asking to distrubute work to others .may be he will do more work of others also i think. there will pressure for him, if he distrubes his work. in home, try to talk to him in a polite way ,that why he is getting more pressure and tensions in office . he can talk to his higher officials about his pressure. in home ,give massages to him ,if he has pain in any parts. he can enjoy with ur kids if u have,then he has get some releif.
@ank_47 (1959)
• India
20 Feb 09
sorry for this sentence ,'there will pressure for him, if he distrubes his work'. i missed to write 'be no' words. correct that when u read that sentence .
@mermaidivy (15394)
• United States
27 Feb 09
Thank you for your response! :-)
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
20 Feb 09
Why not ask him what you can do. When my boyfriend is stressed I ask him to talk to me, to vent it all out. Then I give him a back massage before bed to help relax his muscles to help him sleep.
@mermaidivy (15394)
• United States
27 Feb 09
I did do that to him :-) Thank you for your response! :-)