what do you look in a boy/girl do you really go for the person or looks

February 20, 2009 5:34pm CST
hey this one is for fun. what do you really look for in a boy or girl. it could be their humor, looks, money, kindness..... you get the idea. i mayself have been out with boys who are good looking abd greta bodys. but there is nothing there. you can not get deep with them on any topics ( but them selfs lol)
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
20 Feb 09
I think that I fell in love with my fiance mostly for his charm. He was shy and quiet and yet oh so charmful. He was unsure of himself around me, and did not want to overstep his boundaries, and therefore I knew that he had to be a nice man and raised properly. He knows how to use the words please, thank you, ma'am, sir, and opens doors for people that are in front of him, holds them open for people behind them.
20 Feb 09
thats how i feel for my husband he was shy also. and never tried to rush into the relationship. it was about 4 weeks of dating befour he tried to kiss me and to me and everyone who knows him he is a real gentalmen
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
20 Feb 09
aww that is so romantic. My fiance shook my hand the first time I met him, and the kiss well it was on the second time we met, first date!
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
21 Feb 09
Hello lorraine27! Honestly, I really go for the looks of the person. That's my initial standard. But then, I don't date them easily. I will know if the person is self - centered or not by just talking to them, right? You're right, most of them just want to talk all about themselves.. I am glad my husband is handsome and he's the most humble person I have ever known..