do you like your character!!

@legend4u (1019)
India
February 20, 2009 6:22pm CST
i know it is tough! Everyone personally believe that everything done by him\her is always correct. but you must had some experience where you thought "oh ! no! is there anything wrong with me!" Was there any time where you really hated yourself. i have thought this when i had fight with my brother a long time back.
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@zhuhuifen46 (3484)
• China
21 Feb 09
Our character has been built up with significant influence from genes of parents and family, the living environment and people around. I did not realize my character until very late in my life, and mostly from frustrations, setbacks or lessons. I have modified my character so much for all these years. For instance, I used to be seeking for perfection at all cost, which is obviously not feasible for myself, and even less if others anticipated. Limited by background, and resources, we have to be satisfied with a reasonable balance. An understanding attitude will lead you a positive reflection, and a happy career and life. The above having been said, I believe we must seek for perfection at reasonable cost.
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@legend4u (1019)
• India
21 Feb 09
what more can i say!! you said it all!! rock on!
@klaudine (3651)
• Indonesia
21 Feb 09
Yes, i hate my personality sometimes since for me I am too weak in taking charge of things and I can't make decision right. I am not a person whom you would ask for an opinion because I would not tell you the truth whatever you asked me. I am trying to be more honest and open about my feeling and my opinion but I still think that I am the same with who I used to be. But no... I have never hated myself thought I hate my own personality. I have never criticized myself that hard.
@legend4u (1019)
• India
21 Feb 09
i think as far as you know what your problems are it is easy to live with it. there will be always ways to control and correct your character and personality. no one in this world is perfect and there is not much use with pure perfection.If complete perfection is acquired the the human touch will be lost.
@SomeCowgirl (32254)
• United States
21 Feb 09
I think that everyone will make a mistake and say things that they don't mean. I also think that it is easier to apologize right after, so as to explain exactly how you feel and why you said something the way you did.
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