how do you recover from your hurt ?
By echowon2008
@echowon2008 (106)
February 22, 2009 1:52am CST
I had a long time work day and night about midnight 2 to 3o'clock because i were apart from him .I don't want to stop to think anything .I made myself tired to think nothing .It lasted nearly two months and not told anyone ,gradually ,i found it is not me .I looks so old and down .At last ,I resigned from work which i don't like .I stayed at home all day sleeping for three days.I felt so silent at home because everyone was working outside .I began to do the housework .when everything has done ,i felt empty .I found i should look for a job I like to concentrate my mind on it .when we found you don't have energy to go further ,we should make another goal .Now ,i am a sound person with great vigour .we will come across all kinds of frustration in life ,how did you handle it ?
1 response
@annierose (19501)
• Philippines
22 Feb 09
Well, I understand what you did. That is good thing. Instead of being so sad thinking of the hurt, why not focus our thinking into other things, right? I have same attitude also when I am hurt. I keep myself busy. I cleaned house. I guess, that is the good side of me whenever I got hurt. I cleaned the house very fast and afterwards you can see it very clean. I had observed that I am so industrious whenever I get hurt.
I look for jobs. I read books,surf the net, or watch tv. Well, by doing those things, makes me a productive individual. Because doing those things gives me information and makes my horizon wider. In addition to that, I become aware of my environment.I can also say that I become smarter
And sometimes I just hangout with friends so I cannot think of the hurt. I mingled with them and socialize to other people. It is so wonderful meeting new people, new faces. From socializing to different people, I am gaining understanding of different outlooks in life. I can say that to recover from my hurt, I not want myself to be alone even for a moment.Giving a chance for myself to be alone also gives me a chance to remember the hurt and then cry afterwards.
. And I can say, the most effective of all those thing it that, I said all those hurts in a prayer.As the line of an old song goes "Give your burden to God and it will ease your pain."
I look for jobs. I read books,surf the net, or watch tv. Well, by doing those things, makes me a productive individual. Because doing those things gives me information and makes my horizon wider. In addition to that, I become aware of my environment.I can also say that I become smarter And sometimes I just hangout with friends so I cannot think of the hurt. I mingled with them and socialize to other people. It is so wonderful meeting new people, new faces. From socializing to different people, I am gaining understanding of different outlooks in life. I can say that to recover from my hurt, I not want myself to be alone even for a moment.Giving a chance for myself to be alone also gives me a chance to remember the hurt and then cry afterwards.. And I can say, the most effective of all those thing it that, I said all those hurts in a prayer.As the line of an old song goes "Give your burden to God and it will ease your pain."@echowon2008 (106)
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22 Feb 09
annierose,thank you for sharing it with me .The hurt helps me to grow mature .I am in favor of you .Go out from the dark,we can find a new world beside us .Be happy,mylottings!
