Face or heart?

To be honest with you , one does not fall in love considering all of this. But if you are serious about a relationship i guess it is always a good bet to look at how much love is there between both and also finances. I might sound shrewd, but the fact is love cannot buy you food, so its always nice to keep in mind the money part of it too for a nice future.

Well for me it's not really the face, but getting to know her more, I just don't know but it's more I will feel for her if she could accept me for what I am. So it's more on the heart. Well family background it's not important to me, cause if we get married will make our own life, our own world, and space to live in this earth, our own home. Have a nice day to you!

Hello,Achintya! I am in favor of arranged marriage.So I consider first the family background and the financial aspects of the family and than consider other aspects like his looks and behaviour.thanx.

Well for me.....the financial condition and family background doesnt matter.... all that matters is her her background...her beauty....and her sensibility.... Let me describe beauty for you.... according to me beauty is not just being pretty....beauty is the inner charm that is reflected on the face of the person......i hop you understand what i mean

its important that you should put into perspective one's heart when entering a relationship. although sometime "face value" is sometimes important but its not as important as having a good heart, because you know what even the prettiest person can be ugly looking if she/he has no goodness in her/his heart.

Reality that is often happened, interesting appearance and background of financial condition would more determining. If I were to chooses, I will choose good at heart. Based on experience, financial condition and interesting appearance exactly often becomes constraint in relationship.

Basically and initially, I really look at the face. Through the face, you could actually evaluate or assess the personality of a person. Then, a good personality carries with it whether a person has a good family or financially background. Personality does matters anyway and not so much of the appearance or social status of the person. There are guys who have good appearance, but has a bad personality. Initially, it is really the appearance that attracts my attention. However, it does not always mean that I would be blinded with the good appearance. In the process of getting to know each other, you could already tell if he could be good for a relationship.

Well I think most people see a face first. I mean, it's hard to say a perons look isn't what first draws you to them. But then once you get to know them-you can like them for other reasons. And even if you aren't attracted to someone physically, you can still get to know them and then like them for who they are. Personally for me...I don't need a guy to have a lot of money...I just need him to be able to financially take care of himself. He can't be jobless and lazy :P lol.

i can see the face first what kind of person.then the heart follows and back ground of the family but if you truly love him or her it does not matter at all

For me the face is enough to know the heart of the person. So surely I would rather glare at the face for the face is the reflector of the personality of the person in question. Besides I am a good face reader. I can read the face and tell about the nature of the person almost to the fullest. In ordinary case too surely one needs to look at the face first before getting to know the heart.

I generally start relationships based on a guy's personality. I've never been one to date someone I didn't know. My relationships have always been with guys who I have been friends with first.