Why Am I Not Getting Responses?

United Arab Emirates
February 22, 2009 5:07am CST
Hi Friends, I have been using mylot from last week, i have been working hard on it, but i felt that I'm not getting response as i should have had. i dont know what is reason behind it. i have tried so many things but i haven't got more then four. can anyone tell or help me in that how can i get more and more responses?
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3 responses
@savak03 (6684)
• United States
22 Feb 09
Hi there and welcome to the lot. You lucked out in running into mysdianait first thing in this discussion. She is one of the people I would always turn to for advice because she will never steer you wrong. Just one more little point. I have many times noticed someone responding in discussions with intelligence and I have wanted them to be on my friends list. So I have gone to their profile and looked up discussions they have started and responded to several of the ones that I could contribute something meaningful to. It doesn't matter how old the discussion is the comment will still be received. That way you will get noticed. Also don't hesitate to jump in on discussions where a group is just having some fun. I made some of my best friends by sticking my nose in as it were.
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• United Arab Emirates
22 Feb 09
hi savak03, thanks for you valuable comments, but whatever you have said its quite difficult to do, i post in those discussion which are on top in my list. i don't watch who started that, if i think i can response in it fine manner so i post my response. anyway Thank you very much for your advise i'll try to do that.
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
22 Feb 09
Hi ansabkhan and welcome to myLot! It's not easy when you are new here to find your slot but with patience you'll get there too. We were all new once and if you are finding it fun here you will too! Are you commenting back to those who respond on your discussions? By doing this you get a discussion started and users usually come back the next time too. Have you tried responding to a wide variety of topics, making your presence known and gaining some friends? Then when they take time to respond to you if you go and respond on a discussion or two of theirs you will gradually increase your friends here and gain more responses if your topics are interesting too. It might take a little linger than youexpected but don't give up! Hope this helps. Good luck and happy Lotting!
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• United Arab Emirates
22 Feb 09
Hi mysdianait, Thanks for your valuable comments, i didn't know this much that i should to post comments on responses but now I'm going to do that. i want to ask one more question that, what is the best response? if i mark this, if beneficial for me? or for that person whose response was marked as best? thanks once again
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
22 Feb 09
'Beneficial' is a big word and I know exactly what you are intending but I don't want to enter into earnings as far as cents are concerned. Once you think less about earning cents they seem to increase by themselves here. When you award a best response you will make another user very happy and probably gain a friend. Others will notice that you are awarding them and 'resolving' your discussions (though there is no time limit for doing so) and this could mean they will be willing to respond more often on your discussions. Many users come back and thank you too giving you another opportunity to comment back to them.
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• United Arab Emirates
22 Feb 09
wow, experience speaks itself. i can see the large number after your nick. thanks to you that you explained so much for me. actually some of my friends have been deceived so many times by some fake paid forum. i want to show them a prove that mylot is not fake one in that I'm eager to earn 10$ very soon.
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• Indonesia
22 Feb 09
mysdianait is right, you have to make more responses and adding more friends first. make them have attention to you, if you response their discussion and your response is good you will be memorize by them.so be nice with everyone here, first you don't think about your discussions but make an interesting responses and if you start a disucussion you have to make everyone interested with your topics
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• United Arab Emirates
22 Feb 09
Thanks hendripiero, thanks for you valuable comments, I'm learning from all of you. i hope i will be the best mylotter very soon. Happy Mylotting
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