after havin a partner??

India
February 22, 2009 11:19am CST
wat do u ppl think, we are happy wen we are single or we are happier wen we are with a love partner?? according to me our lyf completely changes after having a lyf partner.. we understand our resposibilites.. wat do u ppl have to say abt it??
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@acmj1985 (25)
• United States
24 Feb 09
I think that people are happy both ways. When you have someone there that will comfort you and be there for you then you are happy. Then when that person is not there and you are single then you like that to because you can do whatever you want. Both has there downfalls though. I was in a relationship for 9 years and recently seperated. Always thought that being single would be kinda fun and it is but you still feel alone and feel like there is something missing! I really hate not being with my ex. When something bad happens and you turn to have someones shoulder to cry on and nobody is there, thenyou arent happy.
@GAUCI123 (1042)
• Malta
22 Feb 09
Well I think both ways can lead to a happy life, however having a partnet is great since you can share all your problems and share everything together
@missybear (11391)
• United States
22 Feb 09
I was happy when I was single and I'm happy now with my honey. I guess it's a different kind of happy.
• Canada
22 Feb 09
I totaly agree. But in the oposite. I think im happier as a single! I was with the same person for almost 10 years I also married him! We were together for a long time. I found while with him I never had anything He was always stealing my money and I was the only one working to support him! It was like we were borrowing from one to pay another. I left him 2 years ago now and I have found since leaving him I have had a major turn around. I now have full custod of my children I have beautifal home. Lots of food in my fridge adn everything that my kids could ever need. I dont have to worry about hiding my money. Or accounting to him for where my money goes. I found that being single I am much happier because I can go where I please and do what I want. Am also free to flirt! LOL just kidding. I notice you are new here Im going to give you a few pointers. To help you make money. First of all make sure your responces are of good quality and quantity! Second don't use short hand like ppl or lyf or abt. I realize it is faster but it makes your responces less creditable because it is not proper grammer! Third Ask everyone that respond to your questions to be on your friends list. The more friends you have the more likely you are to get responces! Hope this helps you happy mylotting!
@clorissa123 (4926)
• United States
22 Feb 09
Don't you think that is great to have somebody always stood by your side, and loving you? I rather having a great loving partner by my side, so I can share everything with her, rather been single. At my age, I am thinking about marriage, that is a must thing to do, don't we all?