Anyone been in love and then went through hell and is still there?
By mslovely101
@mslovely101 (177)
United States
February 22, 2009 1:40pm CST
Have you ever been in love with a guy that seemed like he didn't love you as much as you loved him? I was in love with a guy that broke my heart more than a few times. This valentine's day I had a horrible experience which seemed to last forever. This guy told me that I didn't deserve anything for valentines ...after he had got me a pair of new sneakers. I wish that he would have been honest about his feeling from the begining but he wasn't. I am not with him in a relationship anymore because it seemed to be a waste of time(especially since we argued all the time). What would you do to move on and keep away a frequent heartbreaking ex ?
4 responses
@spoiled311 (5500)
• Philippines
22 Feb 09
hi mslovely!
oh yeah i have. that is actually our testimony of how God has changed our lives--mine and my hubby's. we have had a difficult relationship, but somehow, despite trying to give up countless of times in the 7.5 years that we dated, we managed to stick together until we were finally married a couple of years ago. and that we attribute to God's grace and work in our lives. He had to mold us to become the people after His heart.
anyway, we couldn't be happier. no more fights, or at least, nothing that is violent, and we are just so happy together. we are already expecting our first child next month and we are very excited.
so yeah, it can happen. but i think the best outcome is from letting God into our lives and giving Him full control.
take care and God bless you!
happy mylotting! :-)
@rmorefield (941)
• United States
27 Feb 09
Hello spoiled. I have a question. I have found God. I have let Him into my life. I have asked Him to take control of my life. How do I lead my boyfriend to Him? Like you said, we need to let God into our lives. I know that if we did, everything would work itself out....at least I hope it would. Then again, when I asked God to take over, He took Josh away from me for a while. At this point in time, I don't know if we will be together ever again. I just know that I love him. So, what do I do? Do I continue to let life run its course (because I know now that I am NOT the one in control), or do I try to make our relationship better? It is just so hard to relinquish control over my life, I feel like I should be doing something, you know?
@savypat (20216)
• United States
22 Feb 09
You know in relationships one always seems to love more than the other. But in this case it sounds like you are knocking your head and heart against a wall. Of course he's probably flattered that you care so much and so keep the relationship going.
It sounds like a power play to me. I'd get out.
@NessaFilth (341)
• United States
22 Feb 09
What a jerk! You deserve anything you want... dont ever let any guy tell you anything different. Some guys do this so that you will keep trying harder and harder to please them. They get some sort of sick pleasure out of it. Just be a little harsh when you think of him. Remember that he didnt care enough about you to make you feel good about yourself, and there is a guy out there who is just waiting to spoil you and make you feel special :]
