Do you believe in forever?

@Ainokea (162)
United States
February 22, 2009 11:42pm CST
Do you believe in saying I'll be with you forever... I just hear it a lot, believe it, then get hurt... I guess forever ended for me. If you look at it a psychological stand point you could be delusional... What are your thoughts on this, with marriages at an all time high of 60% divorce rates.
4 responses
• Brazil
23 Feb 09
I want to believe in forever, I always think it's going to last forever. But then it ends, and it hurts... It's always like that for me. Some couples that I know have been married for over 10 years, but my relationships have never gone over 4 years... But I do want to have somebody to stay with me forever, I don't like changing, like when you get used to a person then it ends, and you find somebody else is so hard to get used to the new person, I'm always comparing to the last one, and it's so hard to get comfortable, then when I do get used to the person and comfortable being with that person it ends...it hurts so much...
@Ainokea (162)
• United States
25 Feb 09
heh this is exactly how I feel. I wish there were just soulmates and you could find their address or something...
@dandit (132)
• Indonesia
23 Feb 09
I'll be with you forever...easy to be told but difficult to be executed. It all depended from each person or couple. If there are effort take care of trust, it is not impossible beautiful words of that can become reality.
@Ainokea (162)
• United States
23 Feb 09
true but I have yet to see a couple that lives happily ever after in all my years of living... I guess what I'm saying is I'm starting to give up hope on this idea.
@sugiono (57)
• Indonesia
23 Feb 09
"forever with you" this statement is so beautiful that makes most of people heart melt, but for me myself trusting that statement ended myself twice in pain. i do believe in forever if both people can provide the love that can keep the relationship keeps on going on. a feeling of trust of each other could be the main support for this Forever statement, a couple that will stand to the end for their existence. when this statement comes in a couple life and works out, everything gonna be so beautiful. but in conclusion i do believe in "forever"
• United States
23 Feb 09
when you are 18 forever is a long time. when you are 40 it is more reasonable.