The Octuplets...is he the father?
By kayla_7602
@kayla_7602 (704)
Canada
February 23, 2009 9:55pm CST
Ok so I seen a video on the yahoo homepage. It is a man saying that he has made 3 seperate donations to Nayda. She has denied that he is the father, saying it was someone else. He says that he cannot believe her and wants to have a DNA test done on all the children.
He isnt angry,,,and has also said that he is willing to help her, wheather they are his kids or not. I believe this is very admirable of him. SOme may feel he is doing it to me the hero and have media attention.
I am not convinced that is the reason he is comming forward. I beleive he gunuinely wants to know if these are his children or not.
Do you think she is lying...and he is the father? Do you think he has good intentions, or just wants to have media attention? What do you think about the entire situation?
4 responses
@coffeebreak (17797)
• United States
24 Feb 09
I am watching right now on Oprah (and I never watch that show!) but htey have the woman's father and Dr. Oz on. Dr. Oz is against what she did...big time! But the father is saying it isn't her fault, don't attack her...attack the "system". Oz just said..."If I gave her $100 would that go to her having a pedicure or food for the kids? How do I know?" And also others are saying to "just move on and help the kids". All if we do that, then that sets a precident that if you have a ton of kids, the tax payers will help you support them so you don't have to take to much responsiblity for them.... thiscountrys biggest problem..no one has to take responsibility for anything that they do.
But I did hear on the radio the guy that was asking for the DNA to see if they were hers.. She has always said that all 14 children have the same father, but this guy didn't seem to be saying he was the father of the current 6 children, just the father of the 8 new ones.
The father also said she was so medicated and disorineted when she did that interview with Katie Couric and wasn't talking intelligently...but then went home and did a blog asking for donations!!!
@coffeebreak (17797)
• United States
25 Feb 09
See! It is all falling into place just as she probably intended it to...she has money from her father appearing on Oprah (he said he would support them...so they better be off food stamps by monday...oh wait...he said he didn't know what food stamps were!) She got something from the Katie Couric interview, now from Dr. Phil... and these guys don't pay peanuts to their guests. She'll get it all now and in a few months it'll fizzle off and come christmas she might get it again, but 1 year birthdays, she'll have the rounds again. And how is she going to pay for day care while at school? Her father is going back over seas where he works, and her mother can't take care of 15 little ones by herself...and if and when she does get a job...still...day care will be more than her salary! But then again, she is getting a degree in psychology so she'll know how to further play the system and the sympathy ticket
@kayla_7602 (704)
• Canada
25 Feb 09
Yep that is what I am starting to think also....I checked Dr.Phil's website, and she is on not only tomarrow but the next day also. So 2 hours....I am waiting to see if he has paid her and how much....I think i am going to watch it...it could make for some interesting conversation.
As for her father supporting them...he might be able to help...but realisticly it is going to take a lot more then 1 full time income to support these kids. All we can hope is that these children all turn out OK.
@kayla_7602 (704)
• Canada
25 Feb 09
I watched that on Oprah today too, well actually i only caught the last half an hour. I agree that she is not going to end up taking responsibility for all of her kids. This is not fair, she had this money to have more babies done invitro...why could that money have not gone to support the kids she currently has....or the education, she was using loans to get.
I agree how do you know what she will spending the on, she hasnt proven to make any responsible choices in her past. She is going to be on the Dr. Phil show and in the previews it looks like it will be a good one becuase he asks all the questions we all want to know!
Thanks for your response!
@savypat (20216)
• United States
24 Feb 09
From the way those children came into being each one could have a different Dad. I think they should just DNA them all and preclude any more of this kind of claim. After all it's easy to do and not all that expensive. We're paying for them anyway why not cut out the court costs.
@kayla_7602 (704)
• Canada
24 Feb 09
The only way they can DNA test them all is to have a man to test. Hopefully they will all be tested against this man who is claimning to be the father of all 14. But if he is not the father, and the father does not want to be part of thier lives, there is no point in doing a DNA test, becuase legally he has no obligations or rights to the babies or children...becuase he was only a donor. Thank you for your response.
@savypat (20216)
• United States
24 Feb 09
Once you have a DNA teat on anybody a record of it can be kept to compare it against any other DNA that comes along. We do this in genealogy all the time with no know comparisons at the time the test is run. It won't be long before we will all have our DNA run just like we have finger prints and blood type done. This being said any man that comes along could have his DNA compared to the children.
@kayla_7602 (704)
• Canada
24 Feb 09
Absolutly any man can have it compared. What i meant to say or get across what that unless there is the fathers DNA in the system we will never know.
@maximax8 (31042)
• United Kingdom
25 Feb 09
I imagine that because the lady has 6 children plus another 8 making 14 and they have the same father she must know the name. She could look on the birth certificates. If she had a man pretending to be the dad it is likely she would tell the police. I think the man must be wealthy and he wants to help financially. I believe the man has good intentions. He might be a sperm donor and know how many children he has fathered but not know their names.
@NuttyMomma (901)
• United States
25 Feb 09
i think he believes that he could be the father. I believe he is genuine in his belief. also he mentioned his wife's reaction. god bless her! could you imagine finding out that your husband had donated sperm and now might be father to 14 children!!!! wow!!! i believe that people will be coming out of the woodwork for their 15 minutes of fame but he seems really sincere. it was also interesting the lies that she told him about cancer and never sharing her need for a large family. also the pictures he provide of her. how come she looks so different? i didn't realize aging causes your lips to plump like that!
