My daughter was accosted in the subway today!

Canada
February 24, 2009 2:26pm CST
One of my daughters is 18, lives at home and commutes 2 hours each way by public transit to her college. She just called me, asking how to find a security person in the subway/metro system. She was accosted by a homeless and apparently drugged man who wanted money from her. When she told him she had no money, he got aggressive, right in her face and shoved her. He then knocked her personal items out of her arms. She grabbed up her things and, because she was at a large connecting terminal, she was able to get to another area to make the call. I told her to call 9-1-1, which she did, and she waited for police to arrive. She made a report, gave a very detailed description (she says the man was so up in her face that she knew he had incredibly pale blue eyes!), and also spoke with metro security (who wanted information to check security tapes) and even the workers from the ticket booth. Turns out another passenger also made a report on the same man and, prior to accosting my daughter, he had been armed with a large stick of some kind! I'm sick thinking she went through that alone. I'm also incredibly proud of her for how she handled it. Although she was speaking loudly on the phone to me, she remained quite calm. She told me later she was more angry than scared and "wasn't going to let him get away with doing that to people." She told me the police and metro security thanked her for calling it in. They said that too many people just don't call! Have you ever had this kind of problem? Did you file a police report? Do you call police or security if you see someone ELSE having trouble?
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@ersmommy1 (12587)
• United States
24 Feb 09
Wow I know that was scary. I feel for her. In my early 20's I used to ride the bus to get around. One day while on the bus a guy ( I am pretty sure he was drunk) grabbed me with no intention of letting me off the bus. Needless to say I got off the bus with a torn shirt. But I got off that bus. I didn't wait to see what the driver would do. I just got away from that bus as quick as I could. I haven't been back on public transportation since. Your daughter did the right thing. Good for her. Sometimes, I wish I had done the same thing and stuck around to report it.
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• Canada
25 Feb 09
That must have been a frightening scene for you, ersmommy! I'm glad my daughter did what she did too, thanks :) Mind you, I'm more relieved that she got herself out of harms way first before deciding what action to take. I've been having an ongoing conversation with her, since she got home, about being more aware when she's on public transit. Aware of her surroundings, her own demeanor, all of it. I don't want her to make herself vulnerable in any situation where it could be avoided. People are so isolated when they are out in public these days... totally immersed in their cell phones or text messaging or iPods... I'm sure people have been confronted with trouble simply because they were easy targets.