Have you been inlove to a textmate?
By doncruise21
@doncruise21 (394)
Philippines
February 24, 2009 10:02pm CST
Before, i don't believe to get in-love with a textmate because its just for fun,,,but recently, I feel in-love with this girl and my day is unhappy if i haven't receive a text from her lol. So now, i can't blame other people getting use to it. With the broad way of communication today, getting inlove virtually is normal, can you share your stories with this? =) I would be glad to know it because it will motivate me more and believe that lovetext is possible =) hehehe
7 responses
@maezee (41997)
• United States
25 Feb 09
I've never heard of the term "textmate" although it makes a lot of sense to me. I personally probably wouldn't give out my cell number to someone I haven't physically met, but that's just me. I think that people CAN fall in love through many mediums - the internet, the phone, and so on - although I find it a little hard to believe that you can really get to know someone simply over texts. Can you guys at least graduate to CALLING eachother and hearing eachother's voices at least?
In most cases (at least on my phone), you can only fit 160 characters into one text mesage. I hardly think this is enough space to truly get to know one and other.
@doncruise21 (394)
• Philippines
27 Feb 09
I maezee , yeah text messaging is hot here in the philippines before. We also become the texting capital of ASIA hehe...Because filipinos enjoy it. We make simple things as a source of joy here that's why Philippines is one where happies people on eart leave....its so nice to be a filipino
@hershiez (464)
•
25 Feb 09
Hi and Hello doncruise21! ^_^
Yes, I've been in-love with a textmate. Our friends-of-friends-of-friends made our connection. Hmmmm...Before, I believe that falling in-love with a textmate is just for fun and no one will take it seriously. But when I gave myself a chance to know this guy, whoa! I feel like I've found my angel! ^_^ He is my boyfriend now and we are twisted with so much love for almost 2 years! ^_^ It's a wonderful feeling! ^_^
@doncruise21 (394)
• Philippines
27 Feb 09
Hi hershiez..nice to know your story hehe...yeah we have the same way of thinking before..its just funny that we end up having what was unexpected. With your story, it simplfies that that we get reward if we try things and be open to it.
@doncruise21 (394)
• Philippines
25 Feb 09
haha you're right. have the same way of thinking too before hehe..but sometimes its there. Maybe you need to open up your mind with this kind of relationship because it won't affect you either. It's about happines you found with this kind of love =) lol
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
10 Mar 09
Texting is fun to do. Falling in love through texting is another thing.
I do have one experience before when I get closed to a girl before through
texting. Then all of sudden she stop sending me text messages. I really
wonder why, what went wrong.
@siomaiii (238)
• Philippines
25 Feb 09
I think it is not love. I think people are just being used to receive and send text messages. It is more of a habit. So you feel sad if you don't receive a message from your textmate. So just be careful in evaluating your feelings. It is not easy to fall in love and get hurt.
@doncruise21 (394)
• Philippines
27 Feb 09
yeah siomaiii but its about how you deal with it. Its the connection between both of you. If you don't use to it, it wont matter. There are alot of people getting use to it and end up happy. Its the way you think about things.=) btw thanks for the comment and happy lotting =)
@okoyskabo (186)
• Philippines
25 Feb 09
yes it is possible. i fell in love with him but i have already met him online. it was the advent of internet in the philippines and i was still in college. he was in the military school in baguio and they don't get to meet a lot of friends there so our common friend introduced as online. a few months later, the first cellphone came out in the philippines, i remember i had the nokia 3210. as in i bought that phone so we can text. he was my only text mate because during that time, only a number of people own a unit. i consider him my first true love but we did not end up together.
@doncruise21 (394)
• Philippines
27 Feb 09
Wow that was a great story okoy...Yeah its hard to explain why people are so addictive to texting and usually find their love in to it. We cant bleim them because loving is a thing that no one can explain. Even it is just through test, Finding love in to it is just a amaizing thing. its about 1% for that love to be for good thats why there are still chances. Expect loving through text would be very risky but its like winning a lotto jackpot prize if that 1% will be for good
