Are you empathetic?

Canada
February 26, 2009 10:17am CST
Hello fellow mylotters...i was wondering how many of you consider yourself empathetic? I really feel like I am a very empatheitc person. I can look at people situations and really feel what they are feeling. We recently lost my nephew it will be 2 years in October, and sometimes i will find myself thinking of my sister and how she feels, I then get so upset and have to stop myself from thinking about it..it's like i cant fully engage becuase i feel the pain. I hate having to stop i feel bad for it..becuase she has to feel it everyday. In a not so personal situation....i can feel the pressure and emotions clearly of stories i hear in the news. For instance the father whos daugher and wife hired a hitman to kill him...I watched the video and i could immediatly beging to feel what he would be feeling...then i tend to overthink the situation and I feel all the different feeling that thses people would feel. Another example is the Nadya Suleman Octomom situation. I also think she is being very selfish. But i really feel for the kids, and although i think she should have to be punished for making selfish choices, I also dont think her kids should be taken away...those are her babies. But at the same time i do understand everyone elese feeling towards this. But i listen to her story and i can understand why she would not want to get rid of those embyos. Things like that DO you consider yourself to be empathetic...what are your stories of empathy?
1 response
@bekosfc (235)
• India
26 Feb 09
I loved to be empathetic! I am working hard to grow this habits in me. It's about listening to others putting yourself in their own shoe and it's not easy. It's a selfless practice and hard for us human being since we are selfish by nature. It's hard to remain quiet and just listen! Don't you think so? I believe being empathetic is a lifestyle and a choice. We cannot instantly become one over night. It has to be a quality/character that is a part of my being. Habits are what gives man his character. Our daily conduct of life base on a choice gives us a habit. So, it's really a long story. Good to be empathetic but the price is a costly one and few with earnest hunger to love others would find it!
• Canada
26 Feb 09
I think I was born with this habit, ever since i can remeber I could really pick up of the emotions and feeling of others. Sometimes i would be very sad...just because i was in a room of sad people...or angry...or happy. I dont know i guess it can be a good thing....but it also hard sometimes to deal with...taking on everyone else's feelings can be hard sometimes. Thank you for your response!